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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Tracy1865 says:
    Posted: 08 Nov

    Energetic and affectionate

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  2.   Ejix says:
    Posted: 31 Oct

    Black is beautiful

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  3.   IFITDOYOU says:
    Posted: 14 Sep

    Black women that take care of themselves and that are educated and care about their whole being and surroundings,appearance are the sexiest women on the planet.GOD, DON'T GET ME STARTED!!!

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  4.   Olafimihan7 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun

    Because some folks aren’t racists and are capable of loving another human being on their merits, rather than eliminating certain people because they have a fixation with skin tone.

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  5.   Lizzie2422 says:
    Posted: 25 May

    I have always dated interracially, specifically white men and one of the reasons and, I’m sort to say it, is that I don’t experience the anger, vitriol and disrespect I have experienced with black men. A white man will always compliment men and make me feel like a lady and treat me as such. I appreciate getting to know real and mature men as my future husband

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  6.   Iphy1 says:
    Posted: 27 Mar

    Not all white men are good. I met some players who don't keep to their words. Some are so self centered and mean.

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    • cocorose88 says:
      Posted: 10 Oct

      I have had the exact reciprocal of encounters, where the chocolate warriors were hate petty, entitled, jealous monsters and the vanilla bars were strong, loving and protective white knights who loved me, celebrated my essence and never showed any resentment for education and tax bracket! I guess to each is own though!

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  7.   Sundari203 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar

    I have always dated interracially, specifically white men and one of the reasons and, I’m sort to say it, is that I don’t experience the anger, vitriol and disrespect I have experienced with black men. A white man will always compliment men and make me feel like a lady and treat me as such. I appreciate the fact that white gentlemen, some not all, appreciate my intelligence, integrity and tenacity. I also understand that the ones who do like black women also appreciate our features, i.e. eyes, lips, etc. At the end of the day, date who you like, but know as a woman, we do have options and there are white men who are definitely interested.

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  8.   Maryam264 says:
    Posted: 20 Feb

    Everytime a white gentleman appreciates a black woman there eis always that black man that will have something to say . But everyone should really appreciate who comes their way . Who treats them how they deserve . If some white men treat black women well then why not . We show our genuine love and respect to those that love us for who we are .

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    • Babette12 says:
      Posted: 01 Mar

      I totally agree with your comment.

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    • Ruth116 says:
      Posted: 12 Mar

      There's a BM further down this page complaining, "Why is this all about black women with white men?". He seems to have double standards with regard to BM and WW. If this site were only for BW and WM, he wouldn't have the opportunity to speak on this forum. We have no problem with his preference in women, he likes whom he likes.

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  9.   Rcach99 says:
    Posted: 10 Feb

    I don't like it when people say because we have "nice curves" every woman is unique black or white

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  10.   Faybiyan says:
    Posted: 07 Feb

    Hidden due to low comment rating. Click here to see.

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    • LvilleMan says:
      Posted: 18 Feb

      This is total BS, insulting to black women, and makes you sound pretty insecure. Black women are statistically more educated than black men, and have been held back even more than black men. The atrocity is, black men are responsible for a lot of this. A black woman, any woman, can date whoever they please. They are finding out about white men, just like we are finding out about them. Let me tell you, it's a good match!

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      • Babette12 says:
        Posted: 01 Mar

        Well Said, I am a black woman, and my experience of Black men has been nothing, but pure heartache. Some of these Black men, don't even understand the meaning of LOVE. My last marriage of 13 years, he was only interested in reaping from me to go back to Africa to build a home for his extended family. I am a British-born Black woman and found his reasoning very confusing. In the end, I walked away with nothing and had to restart my life all over again. In my opinion, we are all different and should be able to choose who, we want to be with.

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    • Maryam264 says:
      Posted: 20 Feb

      Why are you black men still stuck into history . None of you are even keeping up . Most of you are the ones who be treating black women like trash and when they find the nice white gentleman that treats them well you still complain . Yet for black men who get white ladies you don't say a thing .

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    • Writermich says:
      Posted: 27 Feb

      This is truly one of the most insulting and ignorant comments I have ever read. I am well-educated on the history of Blacks in America and worldwide. Your comment speaks of your own inferiority and insecurity. I hope you fix that. No idea why you are on this site.

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    • Iphy1 says:
      Posted: 27 Mar

      Why will I suffer from inferiority complex when I'm educated, strong, and I know what I want and go for it?

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    • Glitter74 says:
      Posted: 28 Apr

      Faybiyan, your insecurities, based on black women's choice of a partner, are glaring - and so is your ignorance. This is the 21st century yet you're still asleep!

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  11.   Javaman43 says:
    Posted: 28 Jan

    I believe black women are the most beautiful women on this planet. And I believe they know what they want and what they want to do. When they see something they want they get it. And there is no confusion on if she likes or loves you or not. She will tell you. She also tells it like it is,and how it's going to be. To me thats beautiful inside and out

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  12.   Duwah says:
    Posted: 12 Jan

    I found my dream girl on this site. She is a beautiful black lady from the city and I am a country boy from a small town. She has become my best friend!

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  13.   Mspurple4u says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 23

    Always remember black is beautiful referred to a briad embrace of black culture and identity. Called forn appreciation of black past worthy legency and inspiried cultural pride contemporary black achievements

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  14.   skeletonlove says:
    Posted: 29 Nov 23

    Black don't Crack darling..

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  15.   Him81 says:
    Posted: 23 Nov 23

    I have this burn inside when I'm near a beautiful confident black woman. And I've never had the opportunity to embrace my desire, yet

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  16.   cliff375 says:
    Posted: 28 Oct 23

    very loveing women black there are very careing and very sexual

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  17.   Jim_B says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 23

    I honestly don't know why I like black women.

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  18.   Holyj says:
    Posted: 01 Jul 23

    they are humble and respectful

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  19.   PAwoman says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 23

    I have heard white men say that they find Black Women who exude confidence and strength appealing.. also I’ve also heard this one… the contrast of our skin with theirs! And also , the curves.. I’ve heard that one too

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    • Lady831 says:
      Posted: 31 May 23

      Yes... I've heard all of that too.

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    • DavB40 says:
      Posted: 08 Jun 23

      Black is just So Bold dear!! Your gorgeous and good looking lady!!!

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    • Him81 says:
      Posted: 23 Nov 23

      I've never had the pleasure but I know what stirs my fire and it is Carmel skin nice curves THIKK and then their confidence is over powering

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    • Mspurple4u says:
      Posted: 28 Dec 23

      Yes me also heard of that same

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  20.   Babygirl2615 says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 23

    From what have heard, we black ladies are respectful and calm. the white men love our beauty. I hope one day I find a white man to love

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  21.   Harrystack says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 23

    Generally uninhibited

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    • lbb123 says:
      Posted: 11 Jul 23

      Can you elaborate on your comment, I don’t want to assume what you mean.

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  22.   Magie123 says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 23

    I think It's because most of black women especially from Africa are; - well mannered, I mean they easily agree to what a white husband/boyf can suggest unlike the white female -they aren't into social media, most of the white female want to be celebrities so they do not give time to their bfs -they are not too pampered by their parents and no man wants wants such.

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  23.   Nusu221 says:
    Posted: 06 Feb 23

    They respectful

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  24.   Doc_Savage says:
    Posted: 18 Nov 22

    "Why white men love the black woman?" Its complicated is one answer. Otherwise, if you find yourself in a cosmopolitan mixed race environment and you don't have any racial baggage I don't think you give interracial dating a second thought. Any more than you would not date someone from another another country or nationality. Ethnicity and race are not the biggest obstacles to cis or any other couples getting it together. We are all part of huge populations full of diversity within our own ethnic and racial groups so crossing over the interracial dating divide is great for the gene pool as well as building stable societies, tolerance and mutual understanding. If you are lucky enough to meet someone suitable on every basis from another race, that is into you and there are no vast bureaucratic hurdles keeping you apart and you are both single, then why not mingle? Also lets face it men are men too; so when it comes to "why the white men love the black woman!?" - remember they love any woman out there usually and some even love the ham sandwich if it has flaps lol.. Then there is GOD and he definitely says.. "Take a pinch of white man Wrap him up in black skin Add a touch of blue blood And a little bitty bit of red Indian boy Oh like a Curly Latin kinkies Oh Lordy, Lordy, mixed with yellow Chinkees, yeah You know you lump it all together And you got a recipe for a get along scene Oh what a beautiful dream If it could only come true, you know, you know" ...lyrics by Blue Mink from song Melting Pot.

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    • McRossi says:
      Posted: 22 Nov 22

      Doc_savage you're right on this, it's very complicated to give a direct answer on this one. Like you said earlier we are all part of a huge population full of diversity, I believe anyone can fall in love with whoever they got a good chemistry with regardless of their skin color or where they are from.

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  25.   Onunms says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 22

    We are all unique in our own way be It White/Black! Great Article though but Wish to find my own Imperfect White man.

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    • LvilleMan says:
      Posted: 12 Nov 22

      One thing I've learned after years of dating African and African American, including those who were a different faith than me is, we are all unique. That's the attraction! Not the color of our skin. The beauty I've found of dating a black woman is her resiliency. She's just now coming into a society that is going to give her the respect and her due!

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    • Tanif says:
      Posted: 08 Jul

      Same here too

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  26.   Annelie. says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 22

    Thanks for the article, (Newbie here)I will keep being positive.. I hope I find a genuine white man here sooner than later.

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  27.   Miissyy says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 22

    Is true what they say, there's someone for everyone. Black women are very expressive, they don't let you wonder what they are thinking or what's on their mind. Is such a shame that some black men don't appreciate us that way. Maybe is about time I give a white male a chance and see how it goes, besides i do have a theory I'll like to put to test.

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  28.   Miissyy says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 22

    Is true what they say, there's someone for everyone. Black women are very expressive, they don't let you wonder what they are thinking or what's on their mind. Is such a shame that some black men don't appreciate us that way. Maybe is about time I give a white male a chance and see how it goes, besides i do have a theory I'll like to put to test.

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  29.   WM4Ebony says:
    Posted: 22 May 22

    II have crushed on black women since I saw an hour-glass-figured beauty walking across the diamonds after a baseball game.....It was an extremely lustful moment for a 15-year-old boy....lol.....Still extremely attracted in all ways....but I find black women extremely sexy.....

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  30.   monsterbacke says:
    Posted: 11 Apr 22

    If you are surrounded by mostly white women (e.g. here in Germany) a black woman is like an unicorn: rare, exotic and far to reach. So this may help to raise the attraction very high. Do not get me wrong, that is not meant to be a devaluation. Just a try to explain it on a rational base. If you keep this aside there is this caring, social, fun and open-minded spirit of these women that´s totally adoring.

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 18 Apr 23

      Love this comment !❤️ I can see that it would be that way in Germany

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  31.   BrokenSteve says:
    Posted: 27 Jan 22

    I find black women to be joyous, beautiful, sexy and full of life. I feel happy knowing that my partner will always find a way to make me smile, even on the darkest of days. The only gripe I have about black women (on this site, not in general) Is the lying about their body. So many state they are slim when they are so obviously not!

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  32.   Faith-Lavish says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 22

    Wow , what a beautiful Article, ''be real, be you and the right person will find you''. I like the comments too. Well I am still around hoping I meet that God fearing Man meant for me. Good luck to all the ladies and Man searching.

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  33.   superkruz says:
    Posted: 17 Jan 22

    African women aren't human - they're super human! To me, they are Gods most beautiful creation and must be adored, served and worshiped - that is my greatest desire. Their beauty is beyond belief, their attitude out of this world! I hope I meet my Queen very soon and have a beautiful family where we love, respect and nurture each other.

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    • beebelnat says:
      Posted: 23 Jan 22

      Am so happy to hear someone complimenting black woman like this. I hope all goes well with you

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    • mimifrench says:
      Posted: 20 Feb 22

      How wonderful to see someone appreciate us for all we have to offer. I have found my white king for the second time so I hope you find your black Queen very soon.

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    • Lizndush73 says:
      Posted: 20 Feb 22

      Woooow,very good of you to say such a positive vibe about African black women. I'm happy to hear this.

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    • Africa777 says:
      Posted: 02 Mar 22

      Beautiful and eloquently put...May the universe conspire along with your desires. ASE❤️

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    • Bestchoice01 says:
      Posted: 06 Apr 22

      As an African woman I really appreciate this compliment. Thanks

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    • poobae says:
      Posted: 19 Jul 22

      Well spoken

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    • Evad13 says:
      Posted: 25 Oct 22

      Wonderfully put

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    • Uvy37 says:
      Posted: 29 Jan 23

      For the first time a I feel praised , thank you. As a black proudly African woman ❤️❤️❤️

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    • Tanif says:
      Posted: 08 Jul

      I pray God answers your prayer just as mine too. Thank you for complimenting us.

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  34.   Rikkifaith says:
    Posted: 21 Oct 21

    Thank you very much for the article It will be of help to me (newbies) in this site.

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    • TonyCB says:
      Posted: 06 Apr 22

      Hi. From my perspective of having dated black women long before it was acceptable (almost 30yrs), what pushed me to cross the line n stay there is i was wowed by how awesome black women treated me. In every aspect of a relationship. Sex, keeping a house, cooking, listening to me n being understanding. And one of the most important, expressing how she feels WHEN SHE FEELS IT! Theres no guesswork at knowing where you stand with a black woman. If a man makes her mad, sad, happy, hurts her feelings, she lets him know it! For all you black women, never quit being who you are because no other woman around the world can touch a black woman!

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      • hibiscus0592 says:
        Posted: 26 Aug 22

        Wow!! Glad to hear you find black women so delightful and sexy and have dated interracial for (almost 30 years) I sincerely hope that you have met one good enough to marry...I want to encourage All Swirlers to go all the way and commit to each other landlords to live happy ever

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      • Uvy37 says:
        Posted: 29 Jan 23

        ❤️❤️❤️

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      • PAwoman says:
        Posted: 18 Apr 23

        Great comment! Great perspective!

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      • PAwoman says:
        Posted: 18 Apr 23

        Great comment! Great perspective!

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  35.   londonfog says:
    Posted: 25 Jul 21

    Interracial dating is alot of people's preference, and that is wonderful. However on this site almost all of what you see are black women dating white men. There is and always has been and will be many more Black men dating outside their race than anyone else yet you would think this site is for White men and Black women only

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  36.   queenmonic says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 21

    Nice comments, white men have been complimenting me on my appearance everyday.

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  37.   22jaguar says:
    Posted: 27 May 21

    It is only an opportunity to deface deny and desecrate black men to humiliate and embarrass them and show them I can get what you want based on my financial flexibility something you cannot do

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    • MonogamousCA says:
      Posted: 16 Sep 22

      All women desire financial security and some women demand it. It is crucial to one's ability to survive and thrive. A man's ethnicity or physical attributes do not matter to me. A great/compatible man who loves and worships me, who also provides financial security is all I need.

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  38.   amd53075 says:
    Posted: 18 May 21

    In my experience I have found black women to be far more supportive, joyful, passionate, caring, insightful, confident, and on the whole generally more spiritually, mentally, and emotionally developed than women of other races. They also have the most beautiful smiles and the most invigorating presence.

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    • Nora08105 says:
      Posted: 22 May 21

      Aww so nice

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    • 2Asia says:
      Posted: 11 Sep 21

      What a wonderful thing to say, I love that!

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    • Cali38girl says:
      Posted: 02 Mar 22

      Thanks... I have found myself being so happy because there is no reason not to... I'm glad I read this because when I ask some white guys what attracts then to black women. The first thing on this list are the curves.... now we all know black women are curvy but what about the personality, the loyalty, the attentiveness, the loving, passionate people that we are.. I hate being called a Goddess and despise being told that I will be worshiped... Like no.... treat me like you would treat any woman

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  39.   RuralRefugee says:
    Posted: 25 Feb 21

    Black women are great. Just don't make them mad, because they throw shoes with deadly aim.

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  40.   Blind2Colour says:
    Posted: 27 Dec 20

    Black women have an elegance that is unmatched by any other race. Call it "black girl magic" or whatever you want, I find it captivating beyond words. And, I am grateful for it always.

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  41.   M2145 says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 20

    There are more beautiful, down to earth, and know how to make a man feel like a man. I've always been attracted to darker women they're just more beautiful to me

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  42.   ManVibe says:
    Posted: 26 Nov 20

    I have been dating black women for the past 7+ years after my divorce. Black women have become my clear preference. By far. I have found black women are a stark contrast from a lot of American white women who are often entitled, miserable Karens, rarely satisfied, and do not respect their men. Not all the Beckys of course, but enough for me to notice. Black women have often communicated they don't always get the respect, appreciation, or affection and attention from black men. Again, NOT all. Further, they often have to be in their masculine, be the breadwinner, run the household, make all the decisions, be the mother and the father, be the nurturer and the disciplinarian. So when the meet a man like some of us who are romantic, chivalrous, respectful, appreciative they will often melt into their femimine. When I like and am attracted to a woman she will know it, and she will feel it strongly. I have recieved so much respect, appreciation, and passion from so many black women that it was quite eye opening. I used to think Black Girl Magic was just a cute if not ever so slightly narcissitic cliche among black women. Now I know. It's real. And I'm a believer.

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    • Sherrylynne says:
      Posted: 17 Dec 20

      Thank you for the compliments . I am separated from my white husband, we were married for 16 years, which I believed was two people creating strength and courage between us. In the beginning of the marriage he started pulling away sexually I supported him for the reasons he shared. One morning I asked him what is truly going on why no desire to sleep with me , hold me , kiss me . I am not over weight, I am a team player financially, health care , and providing a fantastic home in other words I did what I knew best. He gave me several different things and answers as to why the distance existed several stood out but this one struck me the most he felt that I should be thankful as a black women to be married to him because of his knowledge and education, and that he had endured racial discrimination for me ? It was as if he was born in another place I have empathy for him and this situation has made me stronger .

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      • niconichole1 says:
        Posted: 26 May 21

        I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Your a Queen point blank period. God will carry, guide and heal you in this situation. Peace and blessings

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      • Cali38girl says:
        Posted: 02 Mar 22

        When comments like this are made... he was deeply rooted and didn't even realize it.... Grateful? You both sacrificed racial discrimination for Love. Best wishes

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 18 Apr 23

      This is by far the best comment that I’ve read here!! Thank you for that

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  43.   Chocokisse84 says:
    Posted: 12 Nov 20

    I'm yet to find my vanilla guy

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  44.   Smplymary says:
    Posted: 29 Sep 20

    Any white man please let's be together I'm ready to relocate and to build family

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  45.   Virtue1969 says:
    Posted: 13 Sep 20

    absolutely beautiful absolutely beautiful

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  46.   Emronz says:
    Posted: 10 Sep 20

    Quite simply, I find Black women incredibly beautiful.

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  47.   Glowy07 says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 20

    Sometimes, you just want to explore outside your race. If you bear no ill feelings about other race then it’s a good adventure. Love can find you anywhere.

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  48.   mulberry94 says:
    Posted: 06 Sep 20

    All most women want is somebody who's genuine! I've just spent 3 years with someone who wasn't who I thought he was. He got caught out via Twitter. I don't think all white men are the same every race has players

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  49.   Sm82g3m8 says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 20

    Black women like white guys, they don't want them to at them in a bad way.

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  50.   cass02 says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 20

    I have been attracted to Ebony women since age 15 and hope to oneday find my Nubian queen to settle down with

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