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Use These Words to Put YOU in Control if He's "Not Sure" He Can Commit!

Posted by Matthew, 07 Jan

"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now..."

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Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from a guy you genuinely like. Someone you’ve invested time and energy in... and someone you think could be THE person for you long term. It leaves you wishing he could just get over his indecision…

If that sounds familiar, then I have the simple solution right here:

Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...

The wrong way is to try and convince him of all of the reasons you’re a great fit (even if all of these reasons are true). Because it can accidentally push him further away... The right way to handle this situation is to meet his confusion with love and kindness, but also strength and respect for yourself.

(Because here’s the crazy thing: this is actually a phenomenal opportunity to demonstrate YOUR status as a high-value woman who he risks losing… ) Watch and learn how you can spin things around...

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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3 responses to "Use These Words to Put YOU in Control if He's "Not Sure" He Can Commit!"

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  1.   Southern-Chi says:
    Posted: 27 Mar 21

    NyGrieo I totally agree with you. I've never been that type of female. Guys should say what they mean...and mean what they say.. And ladies... action speaks louder then words. Movie on Life short, we're only here for a minute.

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  2.   NYGriego says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 20

    if he’s not ready then he’s not ready. Why do the desperate approach and tell him what a phenomenal woman he’s missing out on? Move on.

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  3.   hadem says:
    Posted: 10 Jan 20

    Nice

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