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The Last First Date

Posted by Leticia, 14 Aug

Today, Tiffany is a happily married woman. But not too long ago, she was sitting right where you are. Staring at a computer screen, hoping she wouldn’t be single for the rest of her life!

“Don’t give up,” Tiffany exhorts the millions of online daters out there. “I had many bad experiences dating online, but I kept praying and I tried as hard as I could! My father told me, “He’s coming,” and encouraged me to keep looking. Good thing I did not give up — you shouldn’t either!”

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It all started when Tiffany relocated to somewhere she had no existing ties. “I moved to a new town and wanted to meet new people,” she explains. Was this her first go-round on the online carousel? “No, your site was not my first online dating experience,” she tells us. “I know someone who had success with online dating, so I decided to give it a try. Thank you for being a huge part of me meeting my husband!”

To be sure, not everyone Tiffany met on the Internet was the keeper Jason turned out to be. “I had some bad experiences,” she admits. “So I was not confident at all. But I kept my fingers crossed!”

Jason wasn’t a first-timer, either. By this point, he says he was “skeptical.” Still, less than two months after joining our site, “HappyBee121” (Tiffany) met “Ja25” (Jason). He’d only logged three months as a member when he spotted her profile. “Tiffany is adorable,” Jason says, explaining his decision to reach out.

“Jason sent me a Flirt first, and I immediately responded,” Tiffany recalls. Her first impression of his profile was that he was “extremely sexy.” To expand on that, she says “Jason’s eyes drew me in and his sexy voice kept me on the phone for hours.”

Their connection convinced the duo that they were ready for a date. “We emailed for a week, then spoke daily on the phone for two weeks before we met,” Tiffany remembers. “I felt comfortable meeting him in person after our wonderful phone calls.”

Jason tells us how it went. “Tiffany suggested our meeting,” he says. His first thought on seeing her was, “Wow, she is beautiful!” However, he was a little less impressed with his date’s driving skills… “We were in New Jersey, and she could not figure out how to make a left turn,” Jason laughs.

Tiffany looks back on the moment they met and remembers her first thought: “Oh boy... I’m in trouble!” That being said, “he is a true gentleman,” she assures us.

After that experience, both singles were certain they wanted to revisit this situation, and soon. As they continued seeing each other, both began to notice the greater depths each person possessed. Asked what wasn’t fully represented in their profiles, Tiffany chooses Jason’s honesty and he extolls her personality.

Asked how each other compares to their “type” as understood before meeting, Jason says Tiffany is “extremely similar” and Tiffany answers in more detail. “Jason is the male version of me, absolutely my type and so much more!”

Then, one night, something momentous happened. “Jason took me to the restaurant where we had our first date,” Tiffany remembers. “He was very nervous. I did not know why at the time. Then, Jason proposed before dessert and I was speechless. I hugged and kissed him and that is when he reminded me I did not answer his question. Of course I said yes!”

Jason isn’t “skeptical” any longer and in fact, he’s now filled with hope for the future. “Tiffany has provided me with a wonderful future filled with love,” he says. Tiffany feels fortunate too, to say the least. “Jason has made all of my dreams come true because he is my best friend. I never knew my life could be so blessed,” she says.

After a lovely wedding, Jason and Tiffany became man-and-wife. They have tried to treasure ever moment together. Tiffany is still amazed it’s all real. “We’re about to celebrate our one-year wedding anniversary!” she exclaims.

To singles, Jason offers this reminder: “Don’t give up, and never settle!”

Before we conclude this tale of coupling up via computer, Tiffany has one last thing to say. “Jason wanted me to ask you to include something I said to him on our fourth date,” she adds. “I told him both of us had just gone on the last first date of our lives. I’m so happy I was right! Thanks again for making our meeting possible.”

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  1.   kwindla says:
    Posted: 29 Feb 16

    Congrats

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  2.   lrharper1973 says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 16

    Congrats to everyone with their lovely stories. I just hope and pray that one day I find that special someone and get to post my amazing stories.

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  3.   dayanah says:
    Posted: 08 Feb 16

    May God keep their union,my prayer may God help me to be patience,i believe one day wil happen to me.

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  4.   savvyt says:
    Posted: 06 Dec 15

    Great Story, May God Bless your union with many yrs of love and happiness.

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  5.   whyte7921 says:
    Posted: 03 Dec 15

    Congratulations

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  6.   wonyell says:
    Posted: 24 Nov 15

    God can do it!!!

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  7.   Tia777 says:
    Posted: 16 Nov 15

    Congratulations!!!!

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  8.   zumonica says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 15

    Wow!!! You guys you deserve each other. So lovely. God bless your marriage.

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  9.   Ntuchumelvis says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 15

    W oah.so romantic

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  10.   Bubbles1023 says:
    Posted: 26 Oct 15

    awww,, u guys,, thts a sweet story,,i wsh it could happen fr me too,,,wow, m happy fr u

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  11.   Barrymore5 says:
    Posted: 17 Oct 15

    What the hell, did anyone see roots or twelve years of slavery, you see what our ancestors been through, they have twisted our heritage to the point where we don't know who we are anymore my sisters wake up you are the future of the black race they want to water down our existence to the point that our race doesn't exist anymore yes their are brothers who married outside they are lost too but don't follow their path preserve the race

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  12.   kepaz says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 15

    waaal this is awesome l pray God will do it for me one day.

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  13.   Dezidee20 says:
    Posted: 04 Oct 15

    Amazing story... Congratulations

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  14.   Linzi_ says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 15

    Awesome story congratulations. You guys are too cute together.

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  15.   Precious351 says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 15

    Lovely,God bless your union

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  16.   zebna says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 15

    Inspiring

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  17.   _diamond81 says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 15

    all the best for your new future so happy for you!

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  18.   Mapera says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 15

    Am happy for each one who has succeeded. By faith mine is coming in jesus name and lwill leave to testify.

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  19.   erberry says:
    Posted: 09 Jul 15

    Nice love story

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  20.   KayPerwinkle says:
    Posted: 09 Mar 15

    Awe

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  21.   DC- says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 14

    They both look like nice people. Love their smiles.

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  22.   letlet30 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 14

    Very nice story... i feel im refresh.. yeah thats true dont give up if we have something to find out for the rest of our lives.. no need to be hurry. Someone comes for me and i' ll wait to that who's given me a right guy for my future.. its an inspirational story.. i love it.. congratz to u guys.. have a happy married life ever.. God Bless...

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  23.   Synt says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 14

    I love LOVE stories.

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  24.   blacutey says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 14

    best couple I have seen and read their love story.. I hope you guys grow old together. God bless your live.

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  25.   TC8 says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 14

    You've given me hope with your story. Congrats!

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  26.   Rony2014 says:
    Posted: 11 Apr 14

    So swt all of them...best of luck

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  27.   Cjdimplez says:
    Posted: 02 Apr 14

    That was so sweet.

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  28.   matul says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 14

    Adorable

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  29.   booboome says:
    Posted: 19 Mar 14

    That is very interesting story....I am waiting for Mr. right too

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  30.   Joycorine4 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 14

    They make a lovely couple.

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  31.   Zyl37 says:
    Posted: 25 Feb 14

    What God will do for one he will do for another! Congrats

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  32.   befe says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 14

    hmmm, beautiful, God bless your union and i hope i'll get lucky soon.

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  33.   Cammy2014 says:
    Posted: 18 Jan 14

    Awww what a lovely story, I can't wait to find Mr. Right!!!!

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  34.   gn26 says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 14

    wow amazing keep the love burning happy marriage

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  35.   cacacoco says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 14

    This is a very lovely story. Congrats!

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  36.   Nyki77 says:
    Posted: 22 Dec 13

    Your story is amazing. Congratulations to one of the most beautiful couples I've seen yet!

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  37.   Desire_1 says:
    Posted: 22 Dec 13

    I hope I am as lucky as you guys.

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  38.   meshyweshy says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 13

    lovely story. Though I think for most of us african ladies in the african coontinent, such success stories are few to come by. Mostly because of the distance and skepticism of western men due to the large number of scams. I hope I will one day have success too.

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  39.   onelove79 says:
    Posted: 30 Nov 13

    This story gives me hope!

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  40.   chris22 says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 13

    Lovely story , really heartwarming , good luck to you both in your new future together . May the Good Lord watch over you two lovebirds etc .

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    • Mapera says:
      Posted: 01 Aug 15

      I like the comment you made, may he rein in their marriage

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  41.   LadyT917 says:
    Posted: 21 Nov 13

    Congrats! I love your story and you are a beautiful couple! I'm encouraged to keep looking and will try not to give up!

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  42.   Hope_1999 says:
    Posted: 12 Nov 13

    Guys, your story is a beautiful one. The advice to keep focussed and keep looking is validated by your experience. Thank you for sharing your story with the AR community.....blessings to you both

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  43.   mercyblase says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 13

    What a wonderful story. I have hope mine will happen someday. I won't give up

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  44.   trintee says:
    Posted: 17 Oct 13

    That is truely a blessing thank you for sharing and keeping others encouraged

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  45.   deeree says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 13

    That's a gift from God.I won't give up and i hope that one day i will get my Mr. right.All the best guys and have a wonderful and blessed marriage.

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  46.   Shortlegs4 says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 13

    Such a beautiful story ...it gives me hope that there IS someone out there for me. Good luck to you guys ...you're just to beautiful for words ...congrats Jason and Tiffany :o)

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  47.   apollonia43 says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 13

    That is a blessing I would, love to find a love like that.

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  48.   jimtwobees says:
    Posted: 30 Aug 13

    What a wonderful story. Best wishes for two joyful people whose hearts are full.

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  49.   bwambale says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 13

    Wow, beautiful! wish the best in your marriage . I wish it happens to me God bless me

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  50.   KasiaPine says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 13

    So there's still hope

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