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The government can't keep them apart

Posted by Leticia, 13 Apr

Jeff never had trouble meeting people, given his gregarious nature and his line of work—he’s a snowboard instructor, drummer, and D.J. whose handle is “DJake.”  But he’d found he was most compatible with black women and he wasn’t meeting many of them in his area.  What’s more, Jeff was very eager to meet his match and knew that hoping for the occasional chance meeting might keep him waiting for a long time.

“I wanted someone to fill my lonely heart, and yesterday,” Jeff says.  So he decided to try our site.  “Within the first month, I was talking to so many ladies that I quit searching to meet new ones,” he marvels.  “Several of them are now some of my best friends.  I’ve been teaching one of the girls’ daughters how to do magic tricks!”

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Kalama was getting plenty of attention of her own, but she had specific ideas about the kind of man she was looking for.  When she found Jeff’s profile, it struck her as a bit long, but fun and genuine.  She liked that Jeff knew what he wanted.  His profile declared he was “Ready for Love.”  Their personalities seemed compatible, and so did their relationship goals—both wanted to start a family, sooner rather than later.

There was just one wrinkle to iron out—Jeff was in Ohio and Kalama was in Africa!  Undeterred, they started talking on Skype.  This was enough for Jeff to learn to love Kalama’s laugh, her beautiful smile, and her witty sense of humor.

Jeff decided to go to Africa for a visit to see if their connection would work in real life.  The pair met in person for the first time when Jeff got off the plane in Zambia.  “When I finally met her, she was the same person as on Skype, but so beautiful,” Jeff recalls.  “Her embrace felt so much warmer than a keyboard!”

The young couple felt a little anxious at first but their nerves settled down as their conversation took off.  Jeff and his sweetheart would dance for hours at a local club, until they were the last people on the dance-floor.  Later that night, their first kiss came in the back of the cab on their way home.

Jeff would spend seven weeks with Kalama’s family.  The couple toured the area to see Africa’s wildlife in its natural habitat and visit the world-famous Victoria Falls.  Along the way, they fell madly in love.  By the time Jeff headed home, he was a married man.  Yes, it’s true—Jeff and Kalama got hitched!

Sadly, difficulties with Kalama’s immigration are keeping the couple apart for now.  But Jeff and Kalama are making plans to reunite in Africa.  In fact, they hope to visit impoverished villages in Zambia, offering children entertainment, inspiration and gifts.

“Kalama’s smile, heart and love are greater than I ever could have imagined,” Jeff says.  Something tells us that no government can keep this couple apart for long.

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  1.   jazmine06 says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 16

    Very very touched by Jeff and Kalama's story

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  2.   johnsonn says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 16

    Cool...love without boarders .in a faced world

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  3.   Mabhee says:
    Posted: 24 May 16

    Nothing can keep them apart. They are in love n love conqueres all

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  4.   dimbosa says:
    Posted: 21 May 16

    Wooow so inspiration

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  5.   catenel says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    So sweet a couple they are

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  6.   taytee says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    I would just say wooow perfect couple

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  7.   marwu says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    God bless your marriage

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  8.   Nenethaim says:
    Posted: 02 May 16

    nice ...

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  9.   rafty says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 16

    That's awesome,wish you all the best

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  10.   mariliz says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 16

    Wow is great couple amazingGod bless

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  11.   Mostsexygal says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 16

    Wow!! Jeff is an amazing man. Love has no boundary and I wish the couple the best future. I feel encouraged because I'm also a Zambian. Kalama, the sky is the limit! God bless you....

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  12.   mariliz says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 16

    Congrats and God bless your marriage

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  13.   governorb says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 16

    I believe the government should forget it and allowed them to enjoy their marriage

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  14.   kimparis says:
    Posted: 31 Mar 16

    The love which is between you guys is more than those government i don't know conditions. All the best luck

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  15.   bsuperman says:
    Posted: 22 Mar 16

    I am happy for you guys. ..

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  16.   2miebabe says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 16

    Happy u guys wish u the best

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  17.   cherubet says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 16

    kalama n Jeff congrats ...wish u all the best

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  18.   Ninha says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 16

    Well. In my opinion I don't think dating only can worked. There are a lot of fantasy and fairytale. Iam not there I want some near to me. I can talk direct. And kiss and hug. Share thing with wall I my front. Dating only can good or not. Well iam not look for someone. But. Iam praying to God send me the right person. Iam rushing. Just I want to say God bless you guys. Love is from God. Jesus is love. Amen.

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  19.   Channell1985 says:
    Posted: 04 Feb 16

    Congratulations to you Kalama and Jeff I'm happy for you.U two look good together

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  20.   Cranberry14 says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 16

    I'm pleased to hear Jeff & Kalama made it till now I wish the the best for the future. I have also met a wonderful man from Ireland living in the USA we are now making preperations to meet face to face...please pray for us? We are so in love I want him to be my final destination. All the best to all of you who are still seeking; don't give up!

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  21.   0811 says:
    Posted: 01 Feb 16

    Am happy for Kalama and Jeff, infact Zambia is my country too...i wish i will be as lucky as Kalama.....CONGRATULATIONS!!

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  22.   VALINIS says:
    Posted: 16 Jan 16

    Kisses

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  23.   tatsky says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 15

    Very nice story..very interesting. .what a love story it's amazing

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  24.   moninge says:
    Posted: 15 Dec 15

    Wow that's a beautiful story

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  25.   jfrui says:
    Posted: 28 Nov 15

    What a Happy and adorable couple. I pray for God's interventions. If God be far them who can be against them ?

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  26.   Reallyreal1 says:
    Posted: 26 Nov 15

    Beautiful story .. So happy for this very young couple... I wish I could find someone like that .. To fly all the way to SG to see me ...wow .. That's a fairytale romance.. The government wont win ....

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  27.   lave1 says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 15

    Love is like a magnet.Their determination is the swtest part.Good luck

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  28.   kheya says:
    Posted: 06 Nov 15

    Woow am soo impressed about the courage they hav. Im so encouraged that I can also find my better half here. This is real Amor

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  29.   Ololofiso says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 15

    This is beautiful and very encouraging, it gives me the hope that one can find love mate here one day. Very interesting story.

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  30.   ntikeens says:
    Posted: 28 Oct 15

    Sure it cant keep them apart. Things will workout as in God everything is possible

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  31.   121e says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 15

    Follow your hearts not the government

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  32.   sistaBioss says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 15

    Congrats! Kalama and Jeff it's only a procedure it will be well with you. I wish you the best.

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  33.   bebesh says:
    Posted: 10 Sep 15

    No they can't keep them apart as long as they love one another no one can keep them apart they found each other soulmate all there best to them

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    • PAMPET says:
      Posted: 13 Jan 17

      Congrats to Kalama and Jeff. Wish I could meet a white guy, ages 45 - 50 years old. I am mixed race.

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  34.   mapete says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 15

    That's great

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  35.   Dollgirl says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 15

    Its a beautiful thing....

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  36.   nanpya says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 15

    I'm proud of this two couple, I really wish them luck, hope to find that special someone.

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  37.   StrawberryVI says:
    Posted: 18 Aug 15

    After reading this I am now filled with hope of meeting that special someone. I really do wish them the best.

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  38.   Worker78 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 15

    Hope it lasts forever. :)

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  39.   auror says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 15

    That is very inspiring,true love conqures it all

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  40.   Kasibabe says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 15

    Wow, so inspiring. I wish everything works out for u guy :)

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  41.   Edot says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 15

    Love find ways in order to get it real...they're cute couple...hehehe

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  42.   cma40 says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 14

    wooow everyone is lucky n all looking so beautiful. congratulation ,hope will be too lucky oneday.

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  43.   br-ianie says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 14

    Woow..love is so beautiful. With that power of love ur having both,u will truly make it. Amazing story

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  44.   trace23 says:
    Posted: 23 Jun 14

    Love is so powerful, it doesn't mind the differences In the race, country, nor continent & that's what we call real love. I just wish I would get someone serious like that.any way Good luck!

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  45.   mwansa1988 says:
    Posted: 25 May 14

    Am Zambian and proud of u guys God BLESS and all the best in life :)

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  46.   Kal_ says:
    Posted: 19 May 14

    Can we please STOP talking about Africa as if it is one country...IT IS A CONTINENT!!!!...He is from Ohio and she is in AFRICA....what???...also those of you commenting, Africa is a continent with 55 countries !!!!!!...those of you who are from any country in Africa should at least KNOW that!!!!!!

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    • Lhilly says:
      Posted: 10 Jan 16

      Was quite surprised myself but decided to focus on this beautiful love story and forget everything else

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    • J1n says:
      Posted: 17 Jan 16

      Couldn't agree more

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  47.   kandi_76 says:
    Posted: 10 May 14

    Congratulations! I hope to find love but so far I've only met selfish men on here. But stories like this give me hope

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  48.   roostergod says:
    Posted: 04 May 14

    when its true love not even god can keep u apart. Wish yous the best

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  49.   debbiecutie says:
    Posted: 01 May 14

    Best of luck guys may our almight God be with you always

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  50.   Boog19 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 14

    I have met & fell for a woman in South Africa & plan to go see her in July . I live in the U.S .

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