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Stop Ignoring His Red Flags and Get the Respect You Deserve

Posted by Matthew, 20 Nov

Falling in “like” with someone can happen in a flash.

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On the heels of a thoughtful gesture. After a witty joke that sends you into belly laughs. When he looks at you with flirtatious energy that wasn’t there before...

And while liking someone is an electric feeling that signals the potential for something exciting... it can also trick us into looking past bad behaviors that we wouldn’t normally tolerate…

(It’s one of the primary reasons we get hurt more than we need to when we’re out there dating.)

Not to worry. In the video below, I explain WHY we sometimes let red flags slide and the simple mindset shift that will help protect your heart while you’re looking for your ultimate partner.

Listen, we’ve all been there. It’s tempting to let infatuation be our guide. But no one, no matter how dazzling, is worth our sacrificing our long-term happiness. This is an essential shift in mindset that I cover in the video.

As your coach, it’s important for me to remind you that you get to set the tone for what you will and won’t accept. I know from helping thousands of women find love that setting these boundaries will open the door to better treatment and better men.

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.