Sex with a stranger
First, I must tell you that I am not the one that picks the photos that go with the articles. If I were, I would have picked that hot steamy one from last month to go with this article. I'm a little scarred to see what picture will go with this one. However, I'm not at all fearful of using my imagination to engage in what the article suggests.
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Hey, I think that we've know each other long enough for me to share some of my true life stories with you. You know the stories that you usually don't tell unless you are in the company of really close friends a large blender, tequila and maybe a few shot glasses. This actually came up the other day while my sweetie and I were traveling down memory lane. You know the conversation that starts with a "remember the time"?
Well, it happed about eight years ago. I had taken a new job down south and didn't know anyone in the town that I moved to. My work frequently put me in bars and clubs and that has never been my scene. This one particular night, as I was leaving the club, this abnormally good looking guy offered to help me carry some boxes to my car. I mean he was so good looking that I couldn't look at him because I was sure that my mouth would remain open and I wouldn't be able to take my eyes off him.
Short story shorter...he carried the boxes to my car, I looked into the bluest eyes I'd ever seen and words that didn't belong to me, but came out of my mouth said; "I'd love to make breakfast after waking up next to you in the morning". I'm not really sure where that came from, because I don't cook! But, I did. It was the most amazing, uninhibited night of sex that I've ever had. He never asked my name nor I his.
The truth of the matter was that we did not have to ask, we already knew. We had been dating for over two years at the time and we had just engaged in our first night of role-playing. Now, we look back and laugh at all the fun and all the things that we learned from our impromptu acting classes. We both learned that I do not like to be spanked and he doesn't like it when I play doctor with the plastic gloves.
Recently I read an article in Men's Health that talked about this very issue. It gave examples of different role-plays that couples participated in and the magazine even went as far as to do a survey of 4,000 men and women and asked them what role-playing scenarios they would actually consider. I've included the top 5 on a scale of 1-10 with one being No way and 10 being that would be hot:
Women | Men | |
| Strangers in Bar | 8 | 9 |
| Pilot & Flight Attendant | 8 | 8 |
| Employee & Female Boss | 6 | 9 |
| Professor & Co-ed | 7 | 8 |
| Rich Man & French Maid | 7 | 9 |
You know you don't have to be face to face to role play either. Try it. The key is that both people know that they are playing a role and stay in character until all actors exit the theatre.
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mossimo says:Posted: 14 May 08Help me get that dang cat back in the bag sweetnes and unme
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Toola says:Posted: 15 Apr 08Fun, fun story. I loved it. And I love to hear that there are others out there who have come to know -as I do - just how amazingly exciting role playing can be!
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fkoi says:Posted: 14 Apr 08I believe that most guys would say that they are down with anything that will get them where they are trying to get, but for real I don't know if most guys would be okay with playing the less dominate role (and I'm not sure I wanna know). I find it interesting that the least favorite role for women put them in the more dominate role (boss/employee) but the survey was so biased (I know it was for "Men's Health" but still...) that I'm not sure how valuable it is.
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nicefella115 says:Posted: 14 Apr 08Leave it up to you to say that sweetness.
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Sharon says:Posted: 09 Apr 08Role playing.MMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm Have been aware of it before I even knew what it was!
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sweetnes20 says:Posted: 08 Apr 08
Ohhh boyyy, the cat is out of the bag mossimo!!!
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unme23 says:Posted: 08 Apr 08
i knew it mossimo, that why you were checking out my profile!!!
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SxyWhtTiger says:Posted: 07 Apr 08Very interesting article...role playing can be extremely fun...especially good cop/bad girl
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 30 Mar 08
Fala, that was our little secret!! When are you bringing it again?
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Fala says:Posted: 29 Mar 08
I like Mossimo whether he's dressed in the French maid outfit or not.
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DesertRose09 says:Posted: 27 Mar 08
ive never been much into the role playing game, but to each his own, i like my men to undress me and take their time with me, ive been with a stranger and it was good for the most part, but sometimes its nice to have a regular partner around
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Fala says:Posted: 25 Mar 08
Professor and coed? What about the Professor and MaryAnn?
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Sexycynamin says:Posted: 23 Mar 08
Role playing is the best. Although, the ones mentioned here is not as extreme as I like it but they sound fun. I am more naughty than that. I know I'm not alone with this but I am willing to say... The escaped convict, the stranger in the night, the speeder and the bad cop sounds good if I'm the cop.
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fruitofjane says:Posted: 19 Mar 08
let's see...i've been a bad little girl, a bitchy babysitter, an instant naughty redhead (long wig), a waitress, a nurse and a stranger who needed "ride." Or wait..that last one was real, haha! Role play can be a blast. Can be dang exhausting, too, if it lasts and lasts and lasts.
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OnlyOtter says:Posted: 16 Mar 08
every day is role play for me.... mom, supervisor,human being ......... things that I have to do but not really be in the mood to do all the time....... But, sexual role play adds spice to life, something you can plan and have go your way 100%. Can you say mmmmmmmm?
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outpass35 says:Posted: 15 Mar 08This was a very interesting article. It is much to this about.
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 15 Mar 08
Very interesting...ya had me goin for a second there
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snehaseeli says:Posted: 13 Mar 08I loved it! I've done a little role playing myself (some of it was good and some of it fell flat with a resounding boom)! But when your partner ACTUALLY knows he's suppose to be playing...it is absolutely the best kind of fun!
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