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Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?

Posted by James, 29 Sep

The other day, I google searched interracial sex… all I got was a massive array of porn sites (what was I expecting anyway?). Well, I was hoping to get some insights on the above topic.

Have you ever had sex with someone outside your race? Would you be interested in having sex with someone of another race? Is interracial sex a taboo to you? This is a very controversial topic. “Why the hell would someone prefer to have interracial sex?᾿ most people may ask.

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The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial dating and interracial sex, in particular, – both positively and negatively. Going by the history of the slave era white people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex - even though many white men were constantly having sex with black women. In this “colorblind era᾿, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.

According to a poll done on the blog, majority (67%) of the people that participated in the poll said interracial sex is better than sex with someone within their own race and 15% said it wasn’t better. The rest either never had interracial sex or same race sex.

Adult sex dating among interracial singles is much in practice especially among liberal communities and long-term relationships or matrimony is quiet popular. With the internet being a general platform that brings all types of people, cultures and societies together, we need not emphasize the kind of catalyst it is for those interested in interracial dating and sex… it is a well-known fact.

Most people may decide to try out interracial sex just for the kick of it or out of curiosity. This has brought about statements like “once you go black you never go back᾿ among many others. Given the sexualization and stereotypes surrounding interracial sex, we find most people… especially in their teenage and college life engaging in interracial sex just to prove and disprove such statements.

Most people may not publicly say “interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,᾿ and so on. But when people get behind closed doors with their family and friends comments like “That black dude must have really been packing some heat below the belt. Why else would those white women be interested in black men᾿ or “Only white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.᾿ When they go online to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it… and don’t get me started people expressing their thoughts with by leaving anonymous comments on blogs.

So what is wrong with enjoying sex with a person of other race?

For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring… especially when it involves Black men and white women and Asian women and white men. It’s almost like people believe that race is correlated with penis size and a person’s level of sexual desire. But are people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly as most people believe?

If you’ve had interracial sex already, how good or bad were the encounters? Is it possible that they had everything to do with the guys’ or ladies’ performances, and not the person’s races?

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  1.   decentguy4u says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    I a white an and have been married to a beautiful black woman for over 24 years we have 6 beautiful children. I started dating women of other races in my late teens it started with Spanish girls. I don't know what drew me to them. But there was something. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with white women. I had my fair share of them too. It was just perfect timing the sex was no different I was ready to settle down and start a family and my wife was too. So that's how that started. I had ignorant friends that asked stupid questions like "So what's it like " I gave then stupid answers like " U WON'T BELIEVE ME BUT THEY HAVE 2 " SO ask a stupid question get a stupid answer. In the beginning we got crap from both families but we didn't care. Before my gather in law passed away he told me I was the best son in law he ever had. My wife has 6 sisters. And my mom and dad love my wife to death. So I say be with who you are happy with not who is different. Sex is all the same. It's done the same way no matter what race or color you are.

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    • 877Ann says:
      Posted: 22 Jul 22

      True ❤️

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 24 Jul 22

      @decentguy4u: Very True. This is by far the best answer to this bizarre question :) " Sex is all the same. It's done the same no matter what race or color you are"!

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  2.   Elmo70 says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    I honestly dont think it matters who you make love with .. BM BW WM WW Latinos whoever . The important thing is that you are making love, with someone that you are mutually in love with . Who cares what race or colour we are .. we are all people for goodness sake !!

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  3.   Teeistheman says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 15

    well the way I feel is that I have never really had good sex with a white woman but I have with a black one not to say that it's because of color but honestly I prefer black women to white ones,also the region in which you reside may reflect your views on the matter as a man who resides in the south it is a certain feeling of mischievousness being with a person outside your race,or at least it is to me which makes the sex that much better.

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  4.   Mosiah7 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 15

    One thing I've noticed about topics like this is that whenever white men or black women say that interracial sex is better, they get a whole bunch of "likes" but often when a black man or white woman says they prefer IR over their own race then responders start hitting that "dislike" button. I even see it here with many of the responses. As a black man, I can't speak for how wm or bw feel when they're together but I know how I feel when I'm with black women, white women or other races. I can say the PC thing and act as if race doesn't matter but truthfully I can say it adds a little forbiddenness to the equation that spices things up a bit. Of course, it depends on the individual, as not all black women are the same and not all white women or Latinas are the same in bed either. I personally believe that if you're in love with a woman, that makes it better above all else. For instance, I've been with a woman I loved in the past and I wouldn't have preferred to have sex with any other woman at the time even though looking back on it she really wasn't that great of a lover. There was a time when I only dated black women and you couldn't tell me anything: black women were the end all and be all sexually. But now that I've explored IR I kind of like it better (in most cases, but not all) with a white or Latin lover. The roleplay and color contrasts are the biggest turn ons. But that's not saying that in every case it's going to be the same. Anyway, that's how I feel. Hope I don't get "disliked" too much for saying this lol.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 15

      What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak yourself and how you feel about a topic without. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 15

      What is your problem with BW and WM. Why can't you just speak for yourself and how you feel about a topic. You seem to be someone that is bitter about BW and WM relationships and it shows your lack of self esteem which is very unappealing.

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    • dofire says:
      Posted: 25 Sep 15

      Couldn't have said it better myself! Most people on here are scared to say what they really think. Those who say "black,white, latin it doesn't matter we're all the same" are lying to themselves. USUALLY when you want someone of another race you have to search them out. It doesn't just happen naturally. When btwn the sheets, the color contrast IS exciting. Sometimes the "forbidden fruit thing" DOES cause you to get turned on even more. There are quite a few things that cause many of us to reach that peak that we may not have had before. However after a lil bit, sometimes something funny happens. You actually begin to like (& sometimes love) the person you've been sleeping with. You notice their humour, smile, attentiveness, etc. At that point you become like everyone else and THEN the race is not important anymore... just the person. AHEM... in my opinion of course! :-D

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  5.   Blooville says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 15

    I'm still waiting to see if any one will mention chemistry...Race does not matter but when you have a connection/chemistry with the significant other the sex is bound to be explosive...one night or long term as long as (in modern terms) you click you good

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      True,I've been with both white, blondes and blackwomen,and chemistry is a deciding factor for sure!blonde women are most attractive in my opion,but the trust factor is lower and I never knew if she was telling the truth or not!!

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  6.   lynekiki says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 15

    I love the skin texture of my white love. I think that's the reason i enjoy sex with him than i've ever enjoyed with my ex black bf.... just my thoughts n experience!

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  7.   blackbelle01 says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 15

    Yes it is

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  8.   GuyllFyre says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 15

    Good sex has nothing to do with actual skin colour or "race." If both partners are turned on and having a good time, in my experience, this is good sex. Race, colour, creed, nor religion make a speck of difference once you're naked sensitive skin on skin, a good kisser is always desirable, and when you're that close, you're not really seeing much skin. Really, when you're on top in a good missionary, getting her hips tilted just right, her positive smell and sounds are much more important than anything else.

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  9.   erberry says:
    Posted: 25 Jul 15

    It depends who you meet, if he or she can make it better

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  10.   raesworld says:
    Posted: 23 Jul 15

    It's all about the desire you have for you partner and how much they are willing to please you determines how great the sex is! I have dated both and have had mixed reviews on both and ultimately the passion you stir on your partner is what makes it awesome! Race does not how good the sex will be.

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  11.   SweetNita71 says:
    Posted: 23 Jul 15

    I have from my interracial relationships have been more of them showing me I am the one not like some like my first husband. Was all about him.

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  12.   BrianGlyn says:
    Posted: 23 Jul 15

    Not wishing to sound big headed over may years I have had sex with all, but at the end of the day black women will always come out as the best in bed

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  13.   arcangel0567 says:
    Posted: 27 Oct 14

    it always depends on the partner

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  14.   Tireah says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 14

    sex is plainly just sex its the movements that make it more desirable and a lot of practice. The best way to address this is too teach you partner what you like and show them now some "woman" have the mentally " I cant teach a man how to have sex" but if you can teach one how to love you or keep you happy then alone is no brainer. The point is at some degree its true "Is interracial sex better than sex with someone within your own race?" but teaching one how too please you is so much FUN lol.

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  15.   MrRight4u2 says:
    Posted: 30 May 14

    interesting....personally id have to say its all the same once past the initial infatuation with each others physical differences. what makes sex great is a women s sexual experience in my book. ive bedded completely gorgeous with nothing to offer sexually besides a beautiful face to look at VS an less attractive woman who keeps me very satisfied with all the nonstop touching etc...guess who id rather be around?? race is intriguing to some but the older one (i) gets the less of a role it plays, especially in 2014 lets be real though, we all know that in general certain races have certain traits that some folks gravitate towards.

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  16.   Thatdudelike says:
    Posted: 11 May 14

    It is more about the person not the race. I find all races attractive, but I seem to look for black girls more. The time I did sleep with a black girl was one of my favorites because I was really attracted to her and we got on.

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  17.   dave_74 says:
    Posted: 29 Mar 14

    Sex with someone you love and are attracted to is the best. So if that person happens to be of a different race,( BTW, not surprising to find on an Interracial dating site........lol) then the answer would be yes! Ask this on say a black only (or other racial group only) dating site and I'm sure we would find different answers.

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  18.   piethief says:
    Posted: 15 Mar 14

    I'm a black male in my late fifties. When I was younger I would of said yes to sex with a lady of a different race was better. And the title going to Latinas (esp.P.R.). Now I say no. I don't know if it had to do with inexperience or the fact that the ladies are older, past menopause or what. I do know know that sex with ALL of them past the age of forty (and I do mean ALL races),a great awakening has occurred. I guess the saying is true" all things are better with age". Older women are definitely more passionate and lively with their movements than the younger ones, and that's any race!!!

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  19.   talnwhite1 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 14

    Yes because most interacial sex is between BM/WF. The media, advertisements etc. all reinforce the false sterotype of the evil, stupid, racist, weak white man. So the more 'opinion" polls that support these ficticious beliefs the bettter. A stand up act is the sexualy inadequate white man. But the uneducated, criminal, watermelon etaing black boy would be considered racist. Plus the majority of black women will not go with white men for the fear of "selling out" their own kind yet the opposite is highly encouraged for white people. The discriminated against, rediculed, and taken for granted group in the United States today are white, hetorosexual males that do not act effiminate or date interacially.

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    • AfroBaldMan says:
      Posted: 21 Jul 15

      You are such an idiot. Obviously many racist like you have self worth issues because you are still so concerned about your little white penis getting replaced by everyone else.

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    • raesworld says:
      Posted: 23 Jul 15

      Not true my boyfriend is white and so was my last one. Everything the media portrays I'd not the truth. I thought white guys felt that way about black women and I was as wrong as you are. BTW penis size doesn't matter is all about what pleases your partner.

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    • lattaelady says:
      Posted: 30 Jul 15

      Clearly we see who is not getting any from anyone. This antiquated thinking is what holds all of us back.

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      • tresbel says:
        Posted: 31 Aug 15

        I agree with him. The media does hype us sex between mostly bm and ww. It's true that be are discouraged to date outside her race while black men are celebrated. I've also noticed the jokes obsessive about supposed difference n size between Bm and Wm penis. I've found size doesn't matter if u don't know how to use it. Best sex I ever had was with a who man because he was a great lover not because he also had a huge dick. The language he used here was little ignorant but the content was 100.

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      • tresbel says:
        Posted: 31 Aug 15

        I agree with him. The media does hype us sex between mostly bm and ww. It's true that Bw are discouraged to date outside her race while black men are celebrated. I've also noticed the jokes obsessive about supposed difference n size between Bm and Wm penis. I've found size doesn't matter if u don't know how to use it. Best sex I ever had was with a white man because he was a great lover not because he also had a huge dick. The language used here was little ignorant but the content was 100.

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  20.   EJPhelps says:
    Posted: 21 Jan 14

    I would like to form my own opinion

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  21.   SweetCream21 says:
    Posted: 15 Jan 14

    Great sex is with someone you're sexual attracted to.

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  22.   duchess02 says:
    Posted: 09 Jan 14

    Seriously people good responses as for me no experience none what so ever haha xoxo

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  23.   Brownb09 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 13

    LOL, some of these responses are too funny!! Not only is my answer limited to my own experiences .....I truly think it depends on the person people!

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  24.   DJD2013 says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 13

    The answer for me is a simple one. Foreign men are far better. Period. I've seen every size there is and...let's be honest, all because they have the equipment doesn't mean they know how to use it (damn shame). And for Shylamae's comments below, your religion, its beliefs and following it are your own. People of OTHER religious affiliations, beliefs, followings, practices should never be looked down upon because it doesn't mesh with your own. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of between two consenting adults...sometimes three...lighten up, see and explore the world (without sex for you).

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  25.   sylviakhalan says:
    Posted: 07 Jul 13

    I've had sex with men of other ethnic groups and the only difference I'm seeing is that more African-American men (not all) know how to move their hips and take their time to really do the thing! Caucasian men typically love to kiss (ALOT) and have sex like rabbits (like time is a wasting). But more recently, I'm finding the young black men are inexperienced also because they have been dating outside of their race and haven't learned how to move...oh, and the selfish factor of the guy wanting to get off first. Also, anal sex is becoming a much wanted feature of casual sex along with ALOT of porn star moves (spitting, swallowing, etc.). I've been told that the typical Caucasian woman loves to have it fast and hard. But when they get with an African-American man that knows how to move and take his time, it's a MIND BLOWING experience! ALSO, color contrast is the most used response. Which is totally lame. So, you know what that means....the guy or female is NOT interested in you as a person. Typically, as a black woman, I've been told by "too" many white men who want to have sex with a black woman that they are just "trying it out, because they've never had the opportunity to have sex with a black woman." Conversations like, "I want to lick that black puXXy" are the norm. I was married to a Caucasian man for 8 years and race was not the focus of our relationship, although I had been his first. He never made it a huge subject. He truly liked me for me, looks, intelligence, etc. Now a days online, its very rare to find a man who wants you, more than sex. Sex is the norm and the women are THROWING it out there, even to older men and men who really shouldn't be having sex (unemployed, losers, mentally challenged, etc.). Interracial dating seems to typically happen when persons from the same ethnic group (black/black, white/white, etc.) aren't giving the person of the opposite sex ANY play (typically because lack of attractiveness, oddities, intelligence). Sex is awesome if both partners know what they are doing and both are patient and can teach the other. (not sure how a woman can teach a man how not to put all of his weight on a woman...that's a good move). Well, that's my say on Interracial sex being better than sex with someone within your own race.

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    • ChiefofLove says:
      Posted: 11 Sep 15

      Well narrated intil your qiote stupid comment on who should not have sex..like unrmployed and losers..think brfore you post.People do nor choose to be un employed so stop being condescending. Pace of sex depends on individual and couplw's psycho sexual chemistry and metabolism.Lazy sex can work sometimes or for some people..but for most guys it actually is a drag beyond foreplay. It also depends on penile size..extremely long ones take much longer to get turgid and remain hard..so he may not be doing it slow fir you..but gir his own vested interest.Before you hit back with tingue on torch..fo ask yourself.." "? I wiuld ammend the part you wrote about who should not have sex because of their economic status as tvst will categorize you as variety which amounts to gold digging. Good read otherwise!

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    • luvgluve says:
      Posted: 31 Jul 17

      What you said spoke to me,one must love the person for who she is and not an object!I been with both races and blondes are most satisfying but ,I couldn't trust her!she was a hot woman desiring other men,leaving me in the dust..

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  26.   prettygirl46 says:
    Posted: 27 May 13

    To the comment made by shylamae, I was in love with this man when I was with him and wanted to marry him. I'm sure there are many girls who lost their virginity at a younger age. I am well aware that God is forgiving. I lost my mother at a young age and I didn't have her guidance to teach me that my body was precious to God. My dad did the best he could.

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  27.   shylamae says:
    Posted: 23 May 13

    Sex should be done after marriage.. and just in case you fail to keep your virginity for your future husband , just tend to not engaged sex again for Sex is only for married couple.. ashamed not for you lost your virginity , God is a forgiving God. you knew inside yourself that Sex is not aproppriate thing without the blessing from God who giveth us the breath of existence so I think we should value and live this life through doin things in accordance of His will and not by our own, lust.. peace..God speed everyone

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    • 1Ladyfforu says:
      Posted: 14 Mar 16

      Thank you for saying that

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 24 Feb 21

      @ Shylamae: That is absolutely what sex is for. Just reading your commentary, I feel such conviction because I know better. God bless you for speaking the truth of what sex is really meant for.

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 24 Feb 21

      @ Shylamae: That is absolutely what sex is for. Just reading your commentary, I feel such conviction because I know better.

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  28.   prettygirl46 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 13

    Um, Is Chris Brown available? No, seriously I've got to say I have never had a chance with black men because I only dated white guys and I had a very strict religious upbringing. I lost my virginity at 23. I was deeply in love with him and he taught me about sex. He got me to open up and stop being ashamed of my body. He was amazing and Italian!

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    • lattaelady says:
      Posted: 30 Jul 15

      Yummy Italian!!!!!

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    • PAwoman says:
      Posted: 24 Jul 22

      @prettygirl46: From my experience, the Italian man that I was with was amazing! He was not a selfish lover, and I must say, from that experience, I feel like now I have an affinity for Italian men - had me doing things that I had never done before sexually. He helped me to become more uninhibited.

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  29.   Rranderson says:
    Posted: 23 Dec 12

    It's all in the person. If the attraction is there and everything falls in place, race really doesn't matter. Great sex can come in all kinds of packages. Though I will admit that when something is more forbidden or not the norm, it can be a real turn on. I love the color contrast of a white man against my skin when making love.

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    • WM4Ebony says:
      Posted: 20 Oct 19

      Some women just chemically speak to a man.....and if that is the case chances are that the sex will be amazing!.....The contrasting color is a turn-on as is "the forbidden fruit" theory......If you are turned on by an interracial attraction so be it.....Whatever excites one another.....I happen to find black women incredibly attractive on soooo many fronts......Keep flaunting your stuff ladies......all the races love it!

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  30.   NaijaBabe11 says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 12

    I like the way the skin of white men feel, so I would have to say that sex with them is the greatest. That's just me, though.

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  31.   subbob says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 12

    uhhh yes.......next question?

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  32.   Capt.Harpoon says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 12

    You know what they say, "Once you go white, you'll know it was right".

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  33.   NOPLAYER says:
    Posted: 06 Jul 12

    IMO it’s about what you’re familiar with, if I’ve been with bw more than non-bw, then I’d have to say sex with them is better because I’ve had more encounters with bw, so it’s a numbers thing. It also boils down to the number of serious relationships verses “pillow friendships” because I think sex is more intense when intense feelings are shared between the two people. Dealing with IR situations you may wonder is this other person just taking you for a “test drive” while looking to satisfy a curiosity based on some prevailing sexual myth, but with a person from your own group that thought never crosses your mind because more than likely they already “know what that’s about” (LMAO)! When two people (despite if they’re an IR couple or not) have that special something between them and they dance that most intimate dance, how wonderful it is as long as they both know how to stay with the beat!!!!!!!!!!

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  34.   kelli310 says:
    Posted: 03 Jul 12

    Sex is sex...interracial or not. I've had white guys and black guys and I will say so far the black guys have been better in the sex department than the white guys I've been with thus far.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      how so? would love to hear your take on it...(see my description about it)

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    • AfroBaldMan says:
      Posted: 21 Jul 15

      This is low because lots white men hate hearing this....insecure lil dudes

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  35.   devnull says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 12

    Errant nonsense surely someone is lacking in ideas.

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  36.   adventsport says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 12

    I don't know if its better, I can tell you one thing about sex, when comes the race card, SO ARE HIGHLY OVERRATED!!!!. Sex is about the person and sometimes cultures plays an important part of how they deal with sex.

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  37.   turtleman03 says:
    Posted: 30 May 12

    It's not the race that makes the difference as much as it is the "culture". I think the best sex I've had was with a European woman. Hungarian to be precise.

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  38.   Tropical615 says:
    Posted: 19 May 12

    All I can say is this, once you have tasted dark chocolate, is it hard to go back to milky bars.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      there it is.....(sorry Tropical) but you did what the typical Caucasian does....use of terminology....dark chocolate, chocolate, carmel, milky bars....etc.

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  39.   Carlos1486 says:
    Posted: 17 May 12

    wow!!! i can admit that i have had fancied interacial a long time but simply because its a fantancy .. i guess the adventure of it is the thrill and i guess its coz you are both different thats all

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  40.   Psmooth46 says:
    Posted: 16 May 12

    I have dated both black and white women and there is a difference but it has nothing to do with the color of the person skin and it has everything to do with how a woman treats a man and in most case Black woman are more incline to expect more from a black man a that he has a job and has money to spend on them, and white woman wants the same thing from her man, but she will not abuse him to get.

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  41.   fnance71 says:
    Posted: 15 May 12

    My first experience was when i was 19 and she was 36. I'm black and tall and she was hispanic and we attending the same college. I dated a japanese woman and we have a son. Since i've broken up with her 17 years ago, i never looked back. I dated black women ever since. I don't hate other races, i'm just not going to deal the bs that goes with IR dating For me, the IR road is one road less traveled.

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  42.   silverfoxjoe says:
    Posted: 13 May 12

    The previous writer commenting on maturity and one other lady who discusses sex versus love, are dead on with their thinking. I am considerably older than many who have offered their comments, and women are looking for a man who understands how a woman feels and wants to feel in a loving relationship. For most of us, to just have sex for the sake of the physical act is a very temporary, non-committed act of gratification without the feeling of being bonded to one another with heart and soul. I have had that type of relationship in the past and the shallowness eventually takes its toll and wears off. I have chosen to be a member of this site because I truly wanted to broaden myself in terms of seeing all people as children of God with much to offer to the right person, irrespective of whatever our ethnicity may be. Soon after joining in December, 2011, I was contacted by a lovely woman who is approximately 25 years younger, yet my picture and profile had a magnetic quality to her and she wrote to me, hoping that she would not face rejection and that it would be positive. She just felt that I was the man whom she has been looking for all her life. From there, it has evolved into the development of a mature and loving relationship via live messenger, email, telephone, and soon we will meet in her city. She is ethnically black non-African and Hispanic/Latino, being from Havana and now residing in the U.S. Soon, she will become a citizen and has already received her Bachelors Degree in Engineering, both in Cuba and in the U.S. Building a wonderful, trusting, and loving relationship has been a feeling of our destiny and of God's Will. All of the doubts, trepidations, and anxiousness have been replaced with trust, a strong faith, patience, understanding, and wanting a loving relationship based upon chemistry, and becoming true soulmates in one skin. We know that if all that is present in both of us, that the love she wants to give and express will be natural and spontaneous. To the lady who talked about sex versus love, that is something that I can relate to. My lady said that I don't care about how large your endowment is because that is for those on the internet who only want the physical and to be impressed. I want to make love to you, naturally and spontaneously, and this is something that I will admit I have never experienced in my life, even in my 25 year marriage which I am convinced more and more now that it was arranged. We are so looking forward to meeting in person, getting to know one another, having long talks, feel the love, the excitement, the tingling, and just let that develop so that ultimately we will unite in a beautiful and passionate expression of our deep love for each other. Even though we have not yet met, our feelings have never wavered, and have grown stronger. This, we feel, is a Divine Presence in our lives, and that we are being tested to be patient, keep the love of God in our hearts, and all will result in a beautiful, committed, lifelong relationship. I wish everyone of you the very best in finding your partner, for I give thanks to God for directing my profile to her because I truly feel that it was meant to be.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      PERFECT..... "For most of us, to just have sex for the sake of the physical act is a very temporary, non-committed act of gratification without the feeling of being bonded to one another with heart and soul. I have had that type of relationship in the past and the shallowness eventually takes its toll and wears off."

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      • ChiefofLove says:
        Posted: 11 Sep 15

        Was it exciting when you first did it? It can gave those side effects true but it also depends if its quality sex or just open to every Tom Dick n Harry type of sex...tgat could get ugy

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    • Mikkilove says:
      Posted: 18 Sep 15

      SilverfoxJoe, I am awfully late in providing a reply but I sure hope that your relationship with this beautiful lady was all you hoped it would be. Your entry was inspiring to read.

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  43.   orchid759 says:
    Posted: 10 May 12

    I think the quality of sex depends on the maturity of the person and it has nothing to do with race or one's culture. If you really care about someone, you will do your best to please that person and vice-versa, and I think all of the myths and lies about interracial sex and race is stupid!!! The negative comments are usually not true and some of the other comments are over-exaggerated. It all depends on the person and what they are willing to do or explore with you.

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  44.   viet says:
    Posted: 09 May 12

    it intensify the sex

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  45.   irishson1 says:
    Posted: 08 May 12

    I've had sex with someone of almost every race. I don't even think about this queston about is interracial better. It all depends on the person you're with really. I'll admit, I like sex with black and latin women most. I just have more of an atttraction to them. But, determining who might be better, it's not really worth analyzing in my opinion.

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  46.   427skies says:
    Posted: 05 May 12

    I'm young, and personally, I never thought about having sex with someone because they were of a different "race" or because they were of the same "race"... O.o I've only had sex with one person, and he was of the same "race" but he was West Indian, but I didn't have sex with him because he was the same "race"...I had sex with him because I loved him.

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  47.   Khoa says:
    Posted: 03 May 12

    I love white women but haven't found one interested in me that I have equal chemistry with...the journey continues...sigh

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    • mosco455 says:
      Posted: 04 Jul 21

      I am very interested in white women i get attracted to them and I hope that one day , I will get marry to a lovely white woman

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  48.   skinney says:
    Posted: 01 May 12

    I have loved black women but the softness of a white woman is wonderful

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  49.   shydude74 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 12

    i think so honestly much more of a turn on

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  50.   skidivfly007 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 12

    Sounds to me like the person writing this was lacking in his own sense of masculinity below the belt, and looking for someone to prop up his ego.. LOL. Seriously what a stupid question. Having dated many women of many races, black, white, asian, middle eastern, and enjoying a global business that keeps me in touch with so many vast cultures, only a fool would even entertain a lengthy discussion about this and even equate "love" or the best sex with physical characteristics of any race. Real bonding is responsible for the "best sex". We've all dated those beauty queen gold diggers and realized how poor their performance was despite their endowments they got from Mom, they weren't raised to be a real woman, more like a selfish teenager, and never make for a good lover, and that can be a woman of any race. Having had plenty of experiences with different women, stereotypes about vaginas and race is also silliness as much as it is with stereotypes about men... don't assume all Asians are the tightest squeeze... you may be slightly disappointed... and as many of my black ex's have informed me, their ex black boyfriends weren't exactly packing much heat either... LOL. So when people get into any conversation about stereotyping any race, individuals, religious groups, they really are projecting their own insecurities. Intelligent people take sex as an individual act of bonding, and love is colorblind. And to the older white woman talking about "passion" and race.. that's foolishness. Italian men may be the most passionate of all anywhere in the world.. take a trip to Italy.. LOL. People are always projecting their own wishes, there is never going to be any 'fact' behind opinion. To each their own. I have my preferences, but its not because the 'sex is better'. I would be lying to say it is better with an Asian girl than a black or white woman. Depends on the person.

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    • sylviakhalan says:
      Posted: 07 Jul 13

      so, very true. God knows MOST black men are NOT packing!!! Folks need to rethink that lie!

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