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  1.   sukarno says:
    Posted: 26 Jul 18

    I just want to start a fresh a relationship with a honest, humble, caring fun loving woman.

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  2.   Muwang says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 18

    i jst want asingle lady ok

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  3.   Hafeezo says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 18

    Am looking for women to start first steps of relationship and build nice family together ihope to find responsible woman respect me and respect here

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  4.   Hirlive says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 18

    I m same carrying women & only sex realtion ship eny intrested women like my city & my town so pls

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  5.   L.v.e says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 18

    Hi friends...

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  6.   Ajay541patel says:
    Posted: 07 Jul 18

    Hi

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  7.   khalidshaker says:
    Posted: 05 Jul 18

    Really I dont know where to start but all i was seeing there's no any pure or true heart ,any one of the men & te woman look at the dreamer who can make the dream come true and most of them poor ,poor in the money and poor in the feeling and poor in the romantic ways ,the love and romantic dont know any place and sometimes most of the women put a rules in her hobbits ,in her interseting and that not coming in the real love and romantic about me iam looking to the rich woman i just need the pure love and pure heart and need the love and romantic ,i can eat love, i drink romantic thats what iam looking for.

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  8.   Onyinyendkak says:
    Posted: 04 Jul 18

    I dont want to be on the beach, i want find my soul mate here, a man that will love me for whom l am.

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  9.   BySrinu says:
    Posted: 03 Jul 18

    Hi

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  10.   Emy100000 says:
    Posted: 01 Jul 18

    Before u can get off d bench .u will make sure u are going with ur woman

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  11.   lovevlyheart says:
    Posted: 27 Jun 18

    I am single looking and searching for my prince

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  12.   Sapient75 says:
    Posted: 27 Jun 18

    she should contact me with my

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  13.   Sapient75 says:
    Posted: 27 Jun 18

    I need a Lady ( a natI've America ) for a relationship /Marriage, Humble and respectful, A God fearing one.

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  14.   BILIGATES says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 18

    you pleased me we need to have time and interact.

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  15.   BILIGATES says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 18

    Hi sweetie you look good I m of the same idea we can meet and talk.

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  16.   Island1981 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 18

    If u can give me the love I need then am ready for you.

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  17.   LuckyIv says:
    Posted: 04 Jun 18

    Hope to get a free and open minded understanding soulmate

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  18.   chinnum says:
    Posted: 23 May 18

    i am withing indian auntys

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  19.   Nangame says:
    Posted: 15 May 18

    I don't want to be on the bench I want to play

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  20.   Mace2024 says:
    Posted: 12 May 18

    Am looking for a woman below 45 around Mbarara, Ishaka and Kampala for real love

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  21.   Theochea says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 18

    Someone that we will each other and work things out together hope to meet such a woman

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  22.   Azology says:
    Posted: 10 Apr 18

    I really need a white lady for serious relationship that can lead to marriage

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  23.   Wawambua says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 18

    Am a Kenyan, single mum of two looking for God fearing ,caring man,mature man .

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  24.   Khanbhai1 says:
    Posted: 23 Mar 18

    OK I'm ready

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  25.   Coinss says:
    Posted: 07 Mar 18

    I'm single with much mentality, looking for a long life partner with God fearing heart,much care,up n doing,Very religious, Sexy,bringing family together, Very patients n focused on the relationship.God bring n give my taste of reasonable lady.God lack

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    • S-Kanu says:
      Posted: 04 May 18

      Indid I am looking for a better relationship. Please reply me and indicate your full addres, your contact line.Thanks.

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  26.   Assusu says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 18

    Looking for my companion above 50 mature, God fearing and ready to settle down. A really man ready to love and be loved

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  27.   Jessie224 says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 18

    I can't wait to have my soulmate

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  28.   Monnetex says:
    Posted: 10 Feb 18

    Am ready for any lady who can take me for who am, Waiting for a woman of my dream.

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  29.   Jodisa says:
    Posted: 04 Feb 18

    Waiting to have my dream man

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  30.   Kadibuoro says:
    Posted: 27 Jan 18

    Dont get worried on hw u should get out the bench......a man is there worth for you its juast a matter of time

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  31.   BluIndigo says:
    Posted: 25 Jan 18

    I am only going to get splinters riding the bench,the man of my dreams is out there it's just a matter of time and patience.He is worth waiting for.

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  32.   Sheila35 says:
    Posted: 25 Jan 18

    Can I get off bench please

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  33.   Shifute says:
    Posted: 19 Jan 18

    Am looking for a good hearted and God fearing British woman between the age of 30-40 for a wife

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  34.   Shifute says:
    Posted: 19 Jan 18

    Interesting

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  35.   anesth says:
    Posted: 17 Jan 18

    Am from south sudan .. seeking my heart please can someone help to fine her?

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  36.   Mutevu says:
    Posted: 16 Jan 18

    Don't want to be on the bench ! Hop to get a genuine man who can love, hop they are there.

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  37.   parshru says:
    Posted: 15 Jan 18

    I don't want to be on bench, am seriously looking for my soulmate,whom I shall give all the love that I have.

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  38.   mrdanka says:
    Posted: 01 Jan 18

    I don't want to be on bench, am seriously looking for my soulmate,whom I shall give all the love that I have.

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  39.   meyah007 says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 17

    Am here you

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  40.   muleshams says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 17

    am from Zambia I don't want to be on a bench I want to be on field playing I want a real man

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  41.   GOLOGACITY says:
    Posted: 19 Dec 17

    I am here for you!

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  42.   Shishibaiby says:
    Posted: 16 Dec 17

    I'm mom of 2, single, am looking for a man, who will love me the way I am, God fearing, carering, and understanding,,

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  43.   Tejassawant says:
    Posted: 14 Dec 17

    Yes i am love

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  44.   Anyika says:
    Posted: 13 Dec 17

    Hello am not on bench, Am looking for someone to love and avoid loneliness in my life, I really pray hard to find a serious guy who is loving, caring, kind,understanding and cheerful.

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  45.   Oniwadhi says:
    Posted: 11 Dec 17

    I'm looking for miss right

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  46.   Olubola says:
    Posted: 01 Dec 17

    Yes there are real men out here ready to love for real...... It's just that thier attitudes based on how they get treated!

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  47.   nabende says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 17

    I'm here dear

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  48.   Bennylove100 says:
    Posted: 17 Nov 17

    Are there still real men that can love sincerely and whole hearted??

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    • djsamix says:
      Posted: 21 Nov 17

      They are still there ..I say something am pretty sure with myself... I'm a man loves with all my heart but getting disappointments with Girls. thank you.

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    • Ekundaryormi says:
      Posted: 25 Dec 17

      Definitely yes... Many guys are still out. That cherish their lovers so dearly. Because we also know how it feels to love ❤ some and to be loved. As for me I love.. Love ❤

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  49.   Ninyee says:
    Posted: 15 Nov 17

    Interesting

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  50.   franky_0 says:
    Posted: 09 Nov 17

    still on

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