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  1.   Penivatus says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 17

    Still being in the game and searching a real lover

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  2.   Lyndababe says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 17

    Mmmmh great

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  3.   Kwaboi says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 17

    Wants to be on field

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  4.   lovebluee says:
    Posted: 23 Oct 17

    Bilo very sweet

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  5.   rajeca says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 17

    waiting for nice lady who like real fun and enjoy life no money involved privacy is must i am in india delhi

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  6.   rajeca says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 17

    hello dea i am not on the bench i want to play in the field

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  7.   Edusa says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 17

    Hello dea

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  8.   Edusa says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 17

    Hie dea, i m not on the bench, i m on the field of play.

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  9.   Sadigsm says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 17

    Looking for series relationship

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  10.   00000p says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 17

    looking for soul mate

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  11.   Maibongwe says:
    Posted: 16 Sep 17

    Hi am ready to get off the bench am searching for true love, am from Zimbabwe, I hope I will find the love of my life.

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  12.   Zviitei says:
    Posted: 15 Sep 17

    Wawww I pray to get the love of my life

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  13.   chrisdogbey says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 17

    Waiting to meet a nice lady of my choice

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  14.   Mbaumo says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 17

    i want good ccaring woman

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  15.   louismla says:
    Posted: 02 Aug 17

    Am 27 am looking love of my life

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  16.   startosh says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 17

    Hi,patiently waiting for you!

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  17.   opobo says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 17

    Hie

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  18.   profersor says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 17

    Is my star here pls least get off the bench lucky woman

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  19.   Sheilla22 says:
    Posted: 07 Jul 17

    Hello

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  20.   ingaxna says:
    Posted: 30 Jun 17

    Hi there, am ready 2 get off bench also.

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  21.   k-f says:
    Posted: 26 Jun 17

    still searching for true love not a fake one feel free and inbox me my heart is open for enyone

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  22.   bracky23 says:
    Posted: 21 Jun 17

    where is my type

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    • 5427 says:
      Posted: 04 Jan 18

      Hello dear, I am Indian, you are accept my frnd & love

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  23.   Giddy17 says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 17

    Hi am 33 and looking for love of my life

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  24.   Casper1311 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 17

    Im 35 looking for a nice girl to be with im single.

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  25.   artistica says:
    Posted: 29 May 17

    I definitely want to get off the bench. Iam all arms to receive my match with joy

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  26.   Jackluka says:
    Posted: 22 May 17

    Hi,thanx for ur message bt believe your no longer alone but with a strongman.

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  27.   Don7444 says:
    Posted: 20 May 17

    Am single and looking for real soul mate to give my heart love too

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  28.   Jenjeb says:
    Posted: 18 May 17

    Hope i can find serious and loving man in this site...

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    • Don7444 says:
      Posted: 20 May 17

      Am really looking for soul mate

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    • Jackluka says:
      Posted: 22 May 17

      Hi,negative and negative repell while negative and postive attracts.so let the postive sign stands. I am the postive before you.

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    • Ngurue says:
      Posted: 22 May 17

      Am ready just try me.

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    • Casper1311 says:
      Posted: 12 Jun 17

      Hi there.

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    • Giddy17 says:
      Posted: 14 Jun 17

      Hi Jenjeb, my name is Gideon from Ghana in west africa and i want you to know that i we will be perfect match. Just want to you to know someone is thinking of you furthermore i will be the luckiest man in the world to have you as my wife. please take good care of yourself and let me here from you soon.

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    • Chrislop50 says:
      Posted: 10 Jul 17

      Hello baby , How are you doing today, i hope well. Want to discuss about love with u if it's possible let me know. Thanks

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    • Horiz says:
      Posted: 20 Jul 17

      Here I am. Hope that you are serious as well

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    • ouzbybarry says:
      Posted: 18 Aug 17

      Hi I'm really looking for soul mate

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    • Pariqai says:
      Posted: 05 Sep 17

      that's good, trust in God the Lord Almighty serve Him find out your life partner by the helps of God let the good Lord blesses you, Amen.

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    • likyliky1 says:
      Posted: 19 Sep 17

      Here I am for u dear

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    • Gaphil says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 17

      Hey, beautiful lady.

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    • sunriselad says:
      Posted: 29 Oct 17

      Hi there and how are you I'm interested in you my dear and I hope that we can meet cause I'm single now and I need a good women in my life hopefully it's you my dear .Let me know of what you think ok bye for now hope we can have a happy life together ok.al my love ' Jerry

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    • Penivatus says:
      Posted: 08 Nov 17

      If u want,l'am ready to be u true lover

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    • djsamix says:
      Posted: 21 Nov 17

      Yes ,you can find a man who has really got so much disappointed with fake women ..I keep asking also myself how can I find the right women.. if this can be let me be ..Thanks

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    • Olubola says:
      Posted: 01 Dec 17

      If you but and give it a try you will surely acheive it

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    • more2much says:
      Posted: 29 Dec 17

      I hope we can meet

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  29.   1022goo says:
    Posted: 17 May 17

    I'm so lonely

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  30.   Kemmy08 says:
    Posted: 15 May 17

    He who finds a good wife, finds a good thing! hope to find my beloved husband here and always keeping the faith that we gonna find each other when God will allow.

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    • 1022goo says:
      Posted: 17 May 17

      I BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL SEEK AN FIND.LEAVE THE PLAYERS ALONE THEY'RE UNBELIEVABLE GOOD AT THEIR GAME DON'T RUSH IT AND DON'T SET THE BAR TO HIGH

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  31.   one4u4 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 17

    Hi there am looking for someone who is ready to love and be loved...my heart is full of love but i have no one to share it with.

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  32.   Innobo says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 17

    I need a loving and caring women no race or colour but the girl of my heart

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  33.   Leohh says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 17

    Holla ,. I believe in true love and it is a great medecine that am looking for right here for healing my heart , don't have time for games , i need a serious relationship with a responsible woman.

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  34.   crianx says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 17

    not necessarily interested in colour,i just wanna meet that lady who is beautiful at heart and knows what she want..."love"...

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  35.   chyit says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 17

    I want good friendship

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  36.   Loapolon says:
    Posted: 30 Mar 17

    So amazing, I need a white lady who believes in love, creative, romantic, understanding, ready to be with me for the rest of my life

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  37.   Chie2 says:
    Posted: 28 Mar 17

    I need a man who will accept me for what I am and good Man

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  38.   kpanah says:
    Posted: 18 Mar 17

    I need a good guy who will love me

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  39.   Ricklaudzfun says:
    Posted: 17 Mar 17

    I like to fine the love of my life the 1 who wel b thr 4 me trough any thng with luv nd happens

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  40.   Rutend says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 17

    I notice the is lots of man but they not appear

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  41.   Helenah23 says:
    Posted: 15 Mar 17

    Good day friends, I notice there is not much communication. I need a serious white guy for a relationship, I believe I will get soon. Take care.

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  42.   funcapricorn says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 17

    I see a lot of ladies posting interested in white men, but no white men posting here

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    • Armish1 says:
      Posted: 14 Mar 17

      I actually have also notices that. But maybe we have more females than males in the group, dont you think? lol

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      • Don7444 says:
        Posted: 20 May 17

        Am here and also looking for soul mate so u can contact me real

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    • rajeca says:
      Posted: 06 Oct 17

      do u like indian if yes iam in india in delhi

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  43.   9266 says:
    Posted: 27 Feb 17

    X I am Indian boy for looking for you I am interested waiting for you

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  44.   Niyah5 says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 17

    I'm a women of God and I hope to find a man of God on this site. Have a blessed day everyone

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  45.   Matrix_1987 says:
    Posted: 21 Feb 17

    Run behind a girl means waste of time & loss potentiality

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  46.   eve2222 says:
    Posted: 21 Feb 17

    Sometimes iclose my eyes ad say do faithful men still existed n this world . OMG. Iwish to see dat man in mi face.

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    • Munezero says:
      Posted: 09 Mar 17

      Don't worry dear God knows what you deserve more than you know maybe he is planning the gift of best man you've never seen and had just keep in his faith dear and am like only difference is that I'm still young somehow but I keep hoping

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  47.   timore says:
    Posted: 20 Feb 17

    I'm African Kenyan I'm single and I believe that I will get a true love here

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    • Mayashiku123 says:
      Posted: 25 Mar 17

      When is it going to happen ?I have tried with all means yet no positive response and am really missing to find a white man it have been my prayers and heart desires all through my life...may God bless me with one good man for His Groly and honour..

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  48.   Gadage says:
    Posted: 17 Feb 17

    A am Hindu. Gus and I need a series. Relasansipwith true love

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  49.   12m says:
    Posted: 07 Feb 17

    Am a Christian guy and I need a Serious relationship with true love

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  50.   Luu3 says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 17

    Never dated because i fear ❤ breaks! .... But i hope in here i will find a true and trustworthy guys WHO i will love and share every bit of my feelings with!! Good everyday everyone

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    • Matrix_1987 says:
      Posted: 21 Feb 17

      Come 2 me. I'll take care of ur every heart beat with ur overall feelings.?

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    • Johndad says:
      Posted: 04 Mar 17

      I'm john am a good Christian i pray God touches ur hrt 2 love me 2 and live happily,

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