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  1.   Tshepano says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 16

    I wish to find someone who Will love me in truth. ..

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    • aitidi says:
      Posted: 05 Jul 16

      You can find your love I hope this Im also search but...........

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    • Ladocha says:
      Posted: 22 Jul 16

      Your will be granted once you let your heart speak for you.am here

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    • jangraiz says:
      Posted: 04 Aug 16

      love is just love,it can never be explained

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  2.   Trevalando says:
    Posted: 19 Jun 16

    It's easy by just by saying hello.

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  3.   mulekatete12 says:
    Posted: 17 Jun 16

    I wish to find real love from here , someone. Who is faithful , caring, trustworthy and lovely so help me god

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    • aitidi says:
      Posted: 05 Jul 16

      Amen Find eatch other We can help eatch other

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      • LD68 says:
        Posted: 16 Aug 16

        Yea that's why we are here , I pray n hope I will find true love one day" that's my wish n I also wish the same for everyone here

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  4.   Zah25 says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 16

    Its nt easy bt its worth a try

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  5.   ZKibro says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 16

    It is not easy for woman to accept on this site

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  6.   mod19 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 16

    I'm interest

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  7.   Viaticknave says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 16

    It depends sometimes that special person is right in front of you the problem with us we overlooked and ignored certain facts we picked the wrong person by looks by wrong choices not for the heart so it depends true love is out there you just can't bypass and ignore that one person years go by and they change now people date for the wrong reasons style looks Celebrity Status nobody likes a good honest person but like I said they're out there we just have to look and not keep passing by that's just my opinion

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    • toni2wild says:
      Posted: 02 Jul 16

      That is so true.

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    • serasera says:
      Posted: 11 Jul 16

      This is true you know but you know where the problem is??? Being loved by someone who is with you but when you don't love them back, so for me what I do I don't accept it in the first place because I know I sombre love them back

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  8.   kwasedoo1 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 16

    it not easy finding love u no

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  9.   Shak4ra says:
    Posted: 07 Jun 16

    Its true finding that someone you've waited all your life isn't easy but when he/she comes you don't want to let them go.You want to hold them and pretend like your the only ones in the world.Its such a good feeling to be in love and especially when your with that someone you've waited for a long time.

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  10.   lame3 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 16

    It's not easy finding a real love but praying that one day my heart will be happy

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  11.   Atique41 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 16

    It's too though to find an honest friend. I am seeking someone special for the rest of my life.

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  12.   gukui says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 16

    A man who will love me like christ loved the church

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    • aitidi says:
      Posted: 05 Jul 16

      I can love you more than this But .................

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  13.   Irish143 says:
    Posted: 28 May 16

    True Love Never Die . I am Ready .

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  14.   Ghissy says:
    Posted: 28 May 16

    Amazing !!! Put me in the game

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  15.   nyanyakach says:
    Posted: 26 May 16

    Fast and foremost the relationship shud be based on trust honesty and putting God first then the rest will fall into place both parties should be focused n having a common objective for their relationship to flourish.... It should come naturally.. I love it that way

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  16.   Paulimo21 says:
    Posted: 23 May 16

    Ready

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  17.   namukoloba says:
    Posted: 07 May 16

    relationship is very important.. it starts with respect,honest and mosy of all trust and love one another.

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  18.   anurah says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 16

    No problem I am from India in pune I am ready for the game

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  19.   damote says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 16

    wowwww nice

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  20.   blindboy69 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 16

    i have no problem with interracial anything i had an african women went tosouth sedan there awar goin on there ithink she bin killed broke my heart ?yeah time to move on &find ablack lady who can put up with me. from south australia where i live eh. not seeking riches i might add thank you

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    • jazmine06 says:
      Posted: 18 May 16

      Did you confirm about her death

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    • serasera says:
      Posted: 11 Jul 16

      I have waited my whole life to have a white man but it has taught me to be patient because I believe that I will get him someday though my friends tell me that I shouldn't rush because am just 22

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  21.   sunmake says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 16

    nice met every one

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  22.   judiah says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 16

    I love it when it comes naturally. Like you you see some one for the first time and something within you strikes you and you just know there is a connection, even if you just pretend. You know for sure one day your party will cross again. I love that natural feeling of love at first sight. Even if you see his or her picture, you just know.

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  23.   judiah says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 16

    I love it and am learning .

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  24.   bhupat200 says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 16

    I search real love for fun.

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  25.   nirajus says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 16

    Yes I'm ready for the game

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  26.   sadirr says:
    Posted: 17 Mar 16

    I love women that love me Because I don't joke with love

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  27.   Tightr says:
    Posted: 17 Mar 16

    You first have to believe in who you are and then lison to your Heart it knows what you want, if God is first then he is leading you and he will lead you to lead your mate the Right way,all men should lead there women the way God lead him,love her the way Christ love the church , that's the way I will love my Queen''.

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    • SharonJoe says:
      Posted: 15 Apr 16

      Wow! I love ur write up.if really men love their woman the way Christ love the Church this world would have be a better place

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    • gukui says:
      Posted: 03 Jun 16

      Thats the truth, the sole role for men according to the bible is to love their wives ad women role is to submit,i miss such a man

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      • kpopfan says:
        Posted: 09 Aug 16

        Hi gukui! Right concept, just be careful when you say the word 'submit'. What does New Testament say?

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  28.   achibi says:
    Posted: 17 Mar 16

    I love. woman that. Love. me

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  29.   roni00901 says:
    Posted: 09 Mar 16

    ♥

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  30.   michelleg49 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 16

    I'm so happy lol

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  31.   Tajuana says:
    Posted: 28 Feb 16

    I am deaf.. no drama not good so lazy. I don't like understand I sad like personal so good your body .ok

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  32.   alvin29teah says:
    Posted: 21 Feb 16

    Love doesn't ask why but love speaks from the heart.to love is to trust.

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  33.   benrais says:
    Posted: 20 Feb 16

    relationships strat with respact. .truth..honest..trast..fathful..love.

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  34.   Samantha1n says:
    Posted: 14 Feb 16

    Its wonderful i cant wait to have my half

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  35.   Dfour says:
    Posted: 11 Feb 16

    im happy to read such a wonderful tip to guide me and let me off the bench..

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  36.   thehotboy says:
    Posted: 01 Feb 16

    I need white sexy girl from ethiopia

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  37.   Tracedee says:
    Posted: 22 Jan 16

    True love exist only if you believe it & wait pantiatly.

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    • sakat says:
      Posted: 26 Jul 16

      Hi m here to move trend seking of true love wether it exists or only myth

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  38.   BelovedQN says:
    Posted: 21 Jan 16

    Love is Immortal, I just want someone to share this charming, fleeting life with.

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  39.   23455 says:
    Posted: 06 Jan 16

    English hindi punjabi

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  40.   walalou says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 15

    Looking for some one who is certain of her feelings for me.

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  41.   Studdman says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 15

    1st & for most "don't" be in a rush take. Ur time you don't want to seem "desperate or thirsty". Make sure you find someone who share. Some of ur's intetests which makes it. A little bite better also able to. Be comfortable taking & being around them having. "Mutual Respect" for each other building a "friendship" first. That way to see how both get along together. Before "thinking" about going to the next level. To being "happy" means doing ur "research". "Remember" "If" we not try we don't know "If" we don't know we won't "do".

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  42.   bensonjack29 says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 15

    Wow that's great i can't wait to have my?

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  43.   rajanikant says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 15

    Need a true n pure love n pretty

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    • HaflPint says:
      Posted: 28 Jan 16

      I'm looking for the same true love with no lies and no cheating

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  44.   Swazelihle says:
    Posted: 24 Nov 15

    The only thing I want in ma life its happiness true luv pls take me to yo heart old man pls

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    • alvin29teah says:
      Posted: 21 Feb 16

      Love is base on passion N pain so the more you desires to bear the pain the more you owns it all .

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  45.   wk3456789 says:
    Posted: 23 Nov 15

    am waiting for some one who love me , if you say yes an you mean it ask me you need to see me face to face in skype if you mean it

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  46.   denese1974 says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 15

    Hmmm.....i love this

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  47.   Vimalu says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 15

    It's difficult to trust each other, the Moto and moral should be transparent, which is not in present time. There is nothing like friendship. But both side should understand.

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  48.   cletus97 says:
    Posted: 03 Nov 15

    m ready and very happy for you hi remember me

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  49.   mariyawanda says:
    Posted: 26 Oct 15

    Hot

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  50.   mariyawanda says:
    Posted: 26 Oct 15

    This something else I want to experience this sure ,I like it what a life.

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