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Glad She Made the First Move

Posted by Leticia, 29 Aug

When Kasia joined our site, she had no idea she would meet her future husband here. “I wasn’t very optimistic, but I have a few friends who have met great guys online,” she says.

Napoleon thought our site offered an easier way to meet people. “I was attracted to the convenience of being able to chat with women without leaving my home,” he says. But Napoleon gave himself a “0% chance” of finding “the one” online.

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Happily, they were both wrong.

“At first, it was his looks that drew me to read his profile,” Kasia confides. “Then, after I read it, I wanted to know everything about him.”

We’re always telling female members to find the men they like and contact them—a 21st Century approach to a 21st Century technology. But many women remain traditional and want to wait for someone special to find them.

Kasia broke with that tradition, and ultimately married the man she contacted. Napoleon was certainly glad she found his profile and Flirted with him. “I liked her pictures and her profile,” he says. “Not to be superficial, but she is the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen. The personality made her complete.”

In fact, Napoleon felt so strongly, so quickly, that for their first date he flew Kasia from Florida to New York so they could spend the weekend together! “Dinner, dancing, walks on the beach,” reminisces Kasia. “Quality time, which we used to get to know each other.”

She thought Napoleon “was really nice and looked even better in person” than he did in his profile pix. Napoleon had an immediate reaction to Kasia when they met in the flesh. “This is going to seem cliché, but for me it was love at first sight,” he admits. “I had never felt this way before but by the time the weekend was over, I was convinced we would be married.”

Napoleon’s prediction proved accurate, and now these newlyweds are concentrating on sharing the joys of life with their partner and best friend.

“We have really good chemistry,” observes Kasia. “We share the same interests, and it all came together at the perfect time!”

Napoleon feels fortunate to have met someone who is so good to him. He says that “every moment we are together, she finds ways to show me that she loves me. She is so loving and sweet.”

We asked the couple what their plans are. “Building a loving family together,” says Kasia. Napoleon wants his wife to never doubt how cherished she is. “My plans are to show Kasia why she is special to me and make sure she is happy, every day!”

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  1.   veld says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 17

    Its so sweet to hear a un usual kind of love working and inspiring. I hope to find my charming husband soon oooooops this is so sweet

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  2.   atienno says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 17

    i am eagerly waiting to meet the guy of my life, how do I get them or send them flirts

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  3.   Hiia says:
    Posted: 23 Feb 17

    I am Indian. ..from noida uttr prdaesh u.p.....i.am interested looking for girls. .pilz..

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  4.   Hassankapale says:
    Posted: 15 Feb 17

    Great to hear

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  5.   Marangu_87 says:
    Posted: 11 Feb 17

    I can't wait to find the love of my life

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  6.   Wine1115 says:
    Posted: 09 Feb 17

    Love to meet you. Dinner movie, maybe a drink and whatever afterwords,,,

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  7.   shortybomo says:
    Posted: 17 Jan 17

    Omg....hw sweet....i cant wait to find the love of my life too

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  8.   Adedas says:
    Posted: 13 Jan 17

    Wish to meat a beautiful mine here

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  9.   Ridhal says:
    Posted: 09 Jan 17

    Nice,looking enjoy life

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  10.   alicathy says:
    Posted: 08 Jan 17

    Cutie story and inspiring

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  11.   Baksl says:
    Posted: 05 Jan 17

    Let's believe in our hopes and dreams!!

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  12.   Lightl34 says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 17

    Wow! Very much inspired.

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  13.   Springo says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 16

    Love is good to find

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  14.   Matiniz says:
    Posted: 14 Dec 16

    I like that God bless their marriage

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  15.   bebelmon says:
    Posted: 09 Dec 16

    So inspiring

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  16.   oteyoo says:
    Posted: 30 Nov 16

    Great,

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  17.   mamuda says:
    Posted: 22 Nov 16

    Thankx soo much with god everything is possible happy marriage gal

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  18.   hatta says:
    Posted: 19 Nov 16

    Hard to says

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  19.   mumline says:
    Posted: 18 Nov 16

    Wow it's like fairytale happy ending I hope I'll find mine soon

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  20.   lesiles says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 16

    Success may God grant you happiness that you deserve congratulations once again

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    • ehika says:
      Posted: 14 Dec 17

      A thanksful heart always receive from God...look around, and you will be thankful too

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  21.   kizito5g says:
    Posted: 06 Nov 16

    Wowoo wonderful am happy for you all the best .am waiting for love and happiness here

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  22.   hohha says:
    Posted: 04 Nov 16

    Wow that is amazing

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  23.   Jecii says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 16

    Wow very beautiful couples

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  24.   Chisom2340 says:
    Posted: 29 Oct 16

    I love this

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  25.   almahermana says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 16

    Inspiring

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  26.   DiaBrownyEye says:
    Posted: 10 Oct 16

    Simply amazing!

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  27.   Love123pinky says:
    Posted: 08 Oct 16

    Waooo, nthng but the best of all

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  28.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 27 Sep 16

    Oh wow nice n lovely story..i wsh u nthn but the best fo ur entire life..my story is hopefully next on the line..so many views but few flirts n messages..m startin to loose hope..where is my white guy out there..loools..m waiting patiently sweetheart..!!

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  29.   thaiyen says:
    Posted: 24 Sep 16

    They are lucky to find her partner in life here!!! For me I'm very tired to found someone to be a part of my life...I'm single never married and no kids...but I am wanted to have owned family...but how I never find perfect love or serious relationship.. I wish I can find here! The man who can attract me or love me!! Thank you for your site!make me excited in here!! God bless

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  30.   rozariteddy says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 16

    Yes thts truth me to i found a handsome man im glade god made ths plan fr me and my fiance to meet now ths date who u want is realy

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  31.   acjf says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 16

    Wow am so happy for you my darling wish you all the best.

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  32.   kanniece says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 16

    Wow!i miss to meet mine here

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  33.   waooooo says:
    Posted: 08 Sep 16

    Waooo ,that is nice

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  34.   Smartlady101 says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 16

    Congratulations to the couple. I've braved my normally bashful self; and made the first move a few times, only to be ignored by the ones whom I was truly interested in. (not even a simple: "Thanks, but I don't think that we are compatible".) I'm seriously beginning to feel that this membership will be a total waste of funds and time.

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    • pe1 says:
      Posted: 28 Aug 16

      Smart,I don't think it is a waste of time on this net,may be the one u choosed wanted to see how seriousness u are,so u can still press on to victory. May be he may change his mind nd come back. I am still waiting for mine too.

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  35.   Dynamo32 says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 16

    I wish I meet my soul mate here something that would to married ....

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  36.   Asiy says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 16

    Napoleon and Kasia got it right. The secret to every good relationship is to let the other party know how special they are.Bye! and do really have a nice time with that special ones!!.

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  37.   Rachealyt says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 16

    Wao...

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  38.   lumansi says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 16

    Nice couple wish u a hap family.

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  39.   somizi says:
    Posted: 01 Aug 16

    lovely.I would like to have a white man in my life

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    • tonysan says:
      Posted: 14 Sep 16

      I feel you on that..Iam looking for a white woman in my life.from i was young i was interested interracial relationship.i do hope you find your love too!!

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  40.   Bonirpo says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 16

    Lovely....all the best

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  41.   GIBKEH says:
    Posted: 28 Jul 16

    Lovely. The guy resembles my schoolmate from Sierra Leone. Deekay Sillah.

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  42.   Charles-M says:
    Posted: 23 Jul 16

    Amen wish them long life

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  43.   Truphenar says:
    Posted: 22 Jul 16

    Thts good i love it

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  44.   Anthonylarry says:
    Posted: 21 Jul 16

    Great one. Thumbs up

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  45.   wundedlion says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 16

    It shall by well with all

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  46.   Slimviolet says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 16

    Good for you girl

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  47.   Wanyoks says:
    Posted: 30 Jun 16

    The story is just so cute and lively. I wish everybody would try to make the first move, and all of us will be telling a similar story.

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  48.   faith616 says:
    Posted: 21 Jun 16

    Hello

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  49.   Cusha says:
    Posted: 27 May 16

    Not bad

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  50.   mosbus says:
    Posted: 27 May 16

    This is a through talk. May God keep your Union.

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