Glad She Made the First Move

Posted by Leticia, 29 Aug

When Kasia joined our site, she had no idea she would meet her future husband here. “I wasn’t very optimistic, but I have a few friends who have met great guys online,” she says.

Napoleon thought our site offered an easier way to meet people. “I was attracted to the convenience of being able to chat with women without leaving my home,” he says. But Napoleon gave himself a “0% chance” of finding “the one” online.

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Happily, they were both wrong.

“At first, it was his looks that drew me to read his profile,” Kasia confides. “Then, after I read it, I wanted to know everything about him.”

We’re always telling female members to find the men they like and contact them—a 21st Century approach to a 21st Century technology. But many women remain traditional and want to wait for someone special to find them.

Kasia broke with that tradition, and ultimately married the man she contacted. Napoleon was certainly glad she found his profile and Flirted with him. “I liked her pictures and her profile,” he says. “Not to be superficial, but she is the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen. The personality made her complete.”

In fact, Napoleon felt so strongly, so quickly, that for their first date he flew Kasia from Florida to New York so they could spend the weekend together! “Dinner, dancing, walks on the beach,” reminisces Kasia. “Quality time, which we used to get to know each other.”

She thought Napoleon “was really nice and looked even better in person” than he did in his profile pix. Napoleon had an immediate reaction to Kasia when they met in the flesh. “This is going to seem cliché, but for me it was love at first sight,” he admits. “I had never felt this way before but by the time the weekend was over, I was convinced we would be married.”

Napoleon’s prediction proved accurate, and now these newlyweds are concentrating on sharing the joys of life with their partner and best friend.

“We have really good chemistry,” observes Kasia. “We share the same interests, and it all came together at the perfect time!”

Napoleon feels fortunate to have met someone who is so good to him. He says that “every moment we are together, she finds ways to show me that she loves me. She is so loving and sweet.”

We asked the couple what their plans are. “Building a loving family together,” says Kasia. Napoleon wants his wife to never doubt how cherished she is. “My plans are to show Kasia why she is special to me and make sure she is happy, every day!”

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  1.   kevkev66 says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    Social media such as this site for singles is the alternative to ratchet bars and clubs, and the last ditch effort to find a compatible mate. Stories such as this one are a blessing, because it's hard to find what you're looking for. For most of us it works against us, and tell you why. A majority of the people are describing in a false manner, and they're just not the person they person they day they are. If a lady says she's nice, she's actually the total opposite. In ny experience,, a gentleman can send a kind message and hello,, but will never get a response. This is exactly because the, so called, lady actually isn't nice or kind enough to reply to a kind hello. For men this is very discouraging. So good luck to the real ladies and gentlemen.

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    • Mbwee says:
      Posted: 18 Jun 16

      Powerful statement, I completely concur with you that most men and women are problems as far as love and affection are concerned. Its just quite a few of men and women who have the passion put to use in love. It is tricky finding a real or true lover nowadays.

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  2.   dimbosa says:
    Posted: 01 May 16

    So inspiring

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  3.   nyamondo says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 16

    Wish them good real life and happy family as I continue with my search.any beautiful woman out there for genuine friendship. Please I'm hear waiting for you.

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  4.   nyamondo says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 16

    Marvoulours. Il be glad to get one of the same. One who goes for what she wants.

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  5.   Allew says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 16

    I'm 21years old I'm loving and caring. Understanding also.

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  6.   Allew says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 16

    I wish someday I meet someone I love

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  7.   Medirine says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 16

    Hope it's wil work on me too

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  8.   Tomtran says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 16

    I wishing them happy for life.

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  9.   Robby2u says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 16

    I glad that she made the first move too because I think that men are getting tired of being shot down every time they say something nice to a lady. So good for her maybe other women can learn that its nothing wrong with making the first move and being serious about it. I wish them the best!

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  10.   kaiokenx1 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 16

    i still don't believe it the people that i see might work for this website and they might be trying to get people to think this website really work's and you have to pay money just to talk with a girl that you might not ever meet in your life .

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  11.   kaiokenx1 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 16

    i still don't believe it the people that i see might work for this website and they might be trying to get people to think this website really work's and you have to pay money just to talk with a women that you might not ever meet in your life .

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  12.   Jeboymix says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 16

    Thus beautiful. Tomorrow its me

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  13.   drosu says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 16

    Mean will soon come

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  14.   benita20 says:
    Posted: 21 Mar 16

    beatiful wish u the best

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  15.   recado says:
    Posted: 20 Mar 16

    As usual Love peace and harmony its always the first thing for the true capoles

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  16.   governorb says:
    Posted: 19 Mar 16

    That is awsome hope to meet mine on here very soon may they have a successful marriage

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  17. Posted: 09 Mar 16

    That's good and lovely and bless I wish I have someone to love me like that I'm tired of being single.

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  18.   michelleg49 says:
    Posted: 08 Mar 16

    Wow this is so beautiful My turn is right their

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  19.   lost13 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 16

    im so glad to hear that women should make the 1st move now days cos men r tired of makeing the 1st move cos we get told off or women start yelling sex herassment

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  20.   Buah says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 16

    May the Almighty God bless you and keep you and I pray it work for me too!

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  21.   dossti says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 16

    True love is everlasting phenomena

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  22.   Kirubi says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 16

    Waaooo it's true love for love birds

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  23.   Samantha1n says:
    Posted: 22 Feb 16

    i pray that it also work for me

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  24.   kakendaba says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 16

    Congrats our lord blessed you both

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  25.   Bashar4U says:
    Posted: 12 Feb 16

    No comment !

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  26. Posted: 04 Feb 16

    Hi guys ,am Irene and am looking for white man.

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  27.   Ssango says:
    Posted: 01 Feb 16

    I pray to God that one time I'm the one.

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  28.   Terezin says:
    Posted: 24 Jan 16

    congratulations

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  29.   J1n says:
    Posted: 17 Jan 16

    Are these stories for real? If they are I guess I'll believe it when I see it but for now I'm staying sceptical:(

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  30. Posted: 06 Jan 16

    I wished me too, could find happiness like those people... Unfortunately !!!! I am thinking if all what I red ,it true..... Am on the same site... Honestly,,,all they're talking about, is upgrade to VIP.... I want to know, am I buying a man ? or could I trust the site,sense there 're so many scammers round.....

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    • penelope77 says:
      Posted: 09 Jan 16

      its barely some months i enrolled here to be frank i came with a lot of expectations but i don t know what am thinking of now:::::::::::::: people who are only making silly comments , some are even happily married just wants flirts and all that. goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh just taking my time

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    • josepholoo says:
      Posted: 02 Jun 16

      hy am jose juma like ur comment 32 old in kenya

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  31. Posted: 01 Jan 16

    FOLLOWYOURHEARTALWAYS!!!WHILETRUSTINGINTHEDIVINEFORCE!!! ECHOD!!!BEAUTIFULL!!!ECHODBLESS!!!AMEN!!!

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  32.   ash-samrat says:
    Posted: 18 Dec 15

    Congrates

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  33.   Zareese says:
    Posted: 01 Dec 15

    I wish I can find the happiness they have found.

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  34.   lupira says:
    Posted: 21 Nov 15

    Wow,I got a courage now to doy move, thanks watch the space

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  35.   tuorey says:
    Posted: 19 Nov 15

    I wish you happy marriage and long life . who's love me ?

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  36.   adivah says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 15

    congrats hope to find mine too

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  37.   princej8 says:
    Posted: 06 Nov 15

    Whao, so sweet and Romantic. I also have this doubt in me that I will find d love of my life online, but now am optimistic. If u can, please hook me up

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  38.   rindbaluch says:
    Posted: 26 Oct 15

    Hi you r cute

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  39.   ntikeens says:
    Posted: 08 Oct 15

    I would like to try it also

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  40.   Erngreen says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 15

    Congratulation to everyone am so glad to hear those happy ending May God continued to bless each and every one of you I hope some day I can share my story

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  41.   FIREMAN2388 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 15

    Cool and lovely

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  42.   domiko says:
    Posted: 04 Oct 15

    I pray God bless their marriage. I wish to get one life partner from this site one day.

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  43.   Maggie610 says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 15

    Where are all nice guys at. I think guys need look more at someone personally then there looks. I know a lot people are doubtful finding love on dating site. People just need keep open mind.

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  44.   Aqua0725 says:
    Posted: 29 Sep 15

    When life makes you desperate about a feeling and you find the courage to act on it;... ... that's when you are in touch with your humanity. Thank you Kasia for showing everyone the best example of being a human being. You were simply beautiful... LLAP (Live long and prosper)

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  45.   kk4567 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 15

    i wish this lady like you

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  46.   ondeje says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 15

    Am looking for my white queen lady,age these not matter

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    • Maggie610 says:
      Posted: 01 Oct 15

      Where are all nice guys at. Anybody worthy knowing is worth taking your time to get to meet someone. I think bar is not good place to find good hard working guy. Remember always treat someone way you would want to be treated.

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      • Wemmy1 says:
        Posted: 24 Feb 16

        That is exactly, what i also belief in life .And that is what relationship should entails. I love your comment Maggie610.

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  47. Posted: 23 Sep 15

    Wow Great couple. Wishing you both all the best

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  48.   thebigdon4 says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 15

    Nice one,lucky they are,wishing one day it's gonna be me too

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  49.   Birdy1962 says:
    Posted: 02 Sep 15

    Wouldn't matter if i made the first,second,third,or any move and drove a "lambourghini" i'd still get shot down..lol

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  50.   kathy68 says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 15

    Congratulations

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