Glad She Made the First Move
When Kasia joined our site, she had no idea she would meet her future husband here. “I wasn’t very optimistic, but I have a few friends who have met great guys online,” she says.
Napoleon thought our site offered an easier way to meet people. “I was attracted to the convenience of being able to chat with women without leaving my home,” he says. But Napoleon gave himself a “0% chance” of finding “the one” online.
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Happily, they were both wrong.
“At first, it was his looks that drew me to read his profile,” Kasia confides. “Then, after I read it, I wanted to know everything about him.”
We’re always telling female members to find the men they like and contact them—a 21st Century approach to a 21st Century technology. But many women remain traditional and want to wait for someone special to find them.
Kasia broke with that tradition, and ultimately married the man she contacted. Napoleon was certainly glad she found his profile and Flirted with him. “I liked her pictures and her profile,” he says. “Not to be superficial, but she is the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen. The personality made her complete.”
In fact, Napoleon felt so strongly, so quickly, that for their first date he flew Kasia from Florida to New York so they could spend the weekend together! “Dinner, dancing, walks on the beach,” reminisces Kasia. “Quality time, which we used to get to know each other.”
She thought Napoleon “was really nice and looked even better in person” than he did in his profile pix. Napoleon had an immediate reaction to Kasia when they met in the flesh. “This is going to seem cliché, but for me it was love at first sight,” he admits. “I had never felt this way before but by the time the weekend was over, I was convinced we would be married.”
Napoleon’s prediction proved accurate, and now these newlyweds are concentrating on sharing the joys of life with their partner and best friend.
“We have really good chemistry,” observes Kasia. “We share the same interests, and it all came together at the perfect time!”
Napoleon feels fortunate to have met someone who is so good to him. He says that “every moment we are together, she finds ways to show me that she loves me. She is so loving and sweet.”
We asked the couple what their plans are. “Building a loving family together,” says Kasia. Napoleon wants his wife to never doubt how cherished she is. “My plans are to show Kasia why she is special to me and make sure she is happy, every day!”
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Innocent-Moi says:Posted: 04 Aug 15I wish them continious happiness and loads of loving times with each other..........
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kadadaa120 says:Posted: 21 Feb 14
congrats..may u always be happy <3
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Smiles13 says:Posted: 19 Feb 14
Lovely....may the journey of love bear sweet fruits for both of u.....!!!
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JOEKIBS says:Posted: 13 Feb 14Am so happy for them may God protect what they share together, hoping to get one en stay forever inlove with
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LadyRo50 says:Posted: 06 Jan 14
Good fir them. So where do they live in Florida or NY I'm just curious as to who moved? Congrats
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Vivy31 says:Posted: 28 Dec 13
Is this real? its hard to believe but all in all it happened. Can this site really help people like me to find the love of my life like this couple? if Yes this is really amazing. It is hard to find true love but if God did it for these two, then he can do it for others. Congs to the couple
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Smart1.1 says:Posted: 08 Dec 13God's work is always perfect, couples ride on & be prayerful, I so much admired it but I'm presently based in Nigeria..'.knowing not the way out'.
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Mr.libra34 says:Posted: 21 Oct 13
Hi kasia i hope you found the man of your dreams.good luck to you kasia on your married.may it last
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Silverelite says:Posted: 13 Aug 13Great looking couple! Kind of nerds, but best wishes for both of you
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Javan094 says:Posted: 28 Dec 12It doesn't surprise me that she made the first move because historically and culturally blackmen learn that whitewomen have no sexual interest in us. Right or Wrong many of us will make the assumption, first, that these women have no interest in us what so ever, and don't dare to make the first move. Unless on a site like this.
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jod212 says:Posted: 20 Dec 12
My first husband was a "Love at First Site" experience and we were together 12 years and I made the first move so all that to say...it is possible to find instant happiness. Sadly, he was killed so I am again looking. I believe that if you let that angel on your shoulder speak and you're willing to listen ie., the woman who discovered she had a short tempered alcoholic (BigSeaFish) but I can assure you most people on these sites are looking for real connection. I have met many very nice men but the "one" has not shown up yet. I am however very optimistic as I know he's out there so have a little faith VAM...and others. Much love and happiness to everyone for the new year!!!
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Cleggie says:Posted: 17 Dec 12ooooooooh i am really really happy for them, how i wish to make a living testimony
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fesanyFes2000 says:Posted: 26 Oct 12I'm so happy for them. As a newbie to this site,it's good to read such a success story. Hopefully I will find love here as well.
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Ishimwe says:Posted: 20 Oct 12
Interesting story!congrats to the couple may God be with u!Hey VAM u seems to be vry negative on this C'mon man u try u might find smbody onedy!
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KRAIZLY says:Posted: 24 Jul 12WOW! U LOOK SO GOOD TOGETHER! GOD BLESS YOU GUYS!
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lucianoo says:Posted: 09 May 12Am happy for every couple here,i think is God will,i look up to my own.
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Arakrou22 says:Posted: 13 Sep 11
good well seated in the house, but still can't catch early birds.
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Arakrou22 says:Posted: 13 Sep 11
good smile, bt no good " red letter day on".
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Arakrou22 says:Posted: 13 Sep 11
I always like to landed on 1950 and not even catch 2010 medal.
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Arakrou22 says:Posted: 13 Sep 11
I was watching a 1950 car race doesn't know what to do so I give it try anyway.
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Mescia says:Posted: 12 Sep 11
I was JUST watching 'The 5 Heartbeats'...Eddie & 'Babydoll' look-a-likes!! <3 it!
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Bubblylil says:Posted: 10 Sep 11Very lovely couples....all d best 2 both of U.
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RainKeeper says:Posted: 09 Sep 11Good luck... you two make a beautiful couple. :-)
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shallbewell says:Posted: 08 Sep 11What a wonderful match, the 2 are unique. Wishing you best for the future, and always try to hold on to the end.God be with you- Rev. Nartey
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dawnjae says:Posted: 06 Sep 11
I love all the sucess stories and look forward to reading them. i too have met the man of my dreams we met here 3 months ago. saturday the 10th I will be meeting him in for the first time and can't wait I live in calif he in michgian . were both very happy and looking forward to being together always so it can happen!
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jennae says:Posted: 06 Sep 11
Congradulation, it is my prayer that you guys will not take your marriage likely. You are going to face many obstacles in your life but if you put God as the center, when problem comes against you you will be able to stand. I am still seeking my partner for the rest of this journey with me. I have faith that God is going to grant my wish. when things get hard don't give up on each other and work together and you can make it, Jennae
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Kteach says:Posted: 04 Sep 11Finding love is like finding ONE answer to ALL of your prayers...Congrats!
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Hope2MeetU says:Posted: 04 Sep 11
Kasia and Napolean, I wish you all the best!! I am about to embark on my future adventure next month when I meet the love of my life after 5months "chatting". I understood everything you said and I am glad that you have made a life-long commitment to each other. May your life be filled with love, happiness and children!! God bless you both!!!!
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lovin43 says:Posted: 04 Sep 11
Am glad Napoleon did not misunderstand Kasia. For the man or woman you love, there certain traditions that have become outdated. For example, I always tell my fellow Christians that it is not a devilish act for a woman to fall for a man and make it known. Kasia thanks for that great move! Modern technology, modern thinking. Why not, if someone flirts and you really feel that your chemistry is compatible, the best thing to do is not to wait let that someone know that you are interested in him or her. By the way people misconceive the meaning of chemistry - it is not all about sex. Chemistry varies from interests or hobbies that a couple shares. Hurray, Hurray, Kasia and Napoleon, God bless you.
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skybluelily says:Posted: 04 Sep 11
this is a dream coming true, wish you guys every best thing that awaits you...wish us out here luck too. stay blessed.
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mat26 says:Posted: 04 Sep 11wow,, great wishing all the luck,,,congratulations both of you . hope to find me also my prince,,,
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ellareejon says:Posted: 03 Sep 11
what a lovely looking couple,I wish them all the blessing
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Jacelyn says:Posted: 03 Sep 11This is such an encouraging and motivating story. I am glad they made it. Congratulations!
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humptyz says:Posted: 03 Sep 11Cute couple, she is hot. Congratulations to you both. And good luck to the rest of us!
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rain110 says:Posted: 03 Sep 11Hi beautiful people.......its good to see such a happy, loving couple as of yourselves. Ksaia and Napoleon i know this will bring inspiration to both BM & BW who so honestly thnks it can't happen.....especially with the negativity that surrounds our lives today. I wish the two of you health, prosperity and happiness. Rain/mississippi-zip
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Kindlady says:Posted: 03 Sep 11hi guys, am very happy for and i wish you all the best in your entire life, i have been to this site for more than2 yrs and i met a good guy but he doestnt seem to be so serious, he invited me from africa to visit him in asia, life witt him was good, but he doesnt seem to ready yet, i hope God will intervene and am sure it will be succecfull like it is for you guys.GOD bless you abandantly.
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