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You Are 6 people or less away from finding true Love

Posted by Leticia, 15 Apr

Have you checked out the academy award winning film Crash? The title, a metaphor for the collisions between strangers in the course of day-to-day existence. Think about it, we come in contact with hundreds of people any given week. Those numbers can be increased or decreased depending on where you live, work and mode of transportation used. How many times have you made a new friend away from home, only to learn that the two of you share a hometown or went to the same grade school or dated the same person?

Do you remember the movie Six Degrees of Separation staring Will Smith, Stockard Channing and Donald Sutherland? Well, that was a story based around the idea that everyone is connected to everyone else by a maximum of six other people. So, if you take 2 random people, say you and your soul mate, there can be at most 6 people separating you from them. Therefore the trick of getting in contact with any person can be reduced to the "finding of 6 people that link the two of you together".

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Have you ever thought about where your true "soul mate" is right now? What city, state, country? Could there really be only six people separating the two of you? Let's take my last boyfriend as an example. I was at work when he stopped by the office to visit his cousin. One degree of separation. However, what I didn't know at the time was that someone that I had just hired, was my boyfriend's best friend, his mother was a principal and worked with my favorite high school teacher that's four degree's. The point here is that if I had followed the lead from my high school teacher directly to the boyfriend, I'd have to go into a few more degrees, but, I could have eliminated a few loser boyfriends in between. Who knew?

Now let's take all this info and relate it to being a subscriber to our site. Since we're talking numbers and sense...what would you think the percentage difference is between subscribers and free members in terms of creating their success story?

Do you think the success rate for subscribers is 50% better than for free members? What about 200% better? More? Less? Would it surprise you to learn that subscribers to our site have statistically shown 2,200% (two thousand two hundred percent) higher chance of creating their own success story, over free members? Wow, you've just decreased those 6 degrees of separation by 2 degrees.

Now, just because you've become a subscriber and increased your chances of making that connection by 2,200%, you still have to meet people right? You still have to talk to as many people as you can squeeze into a day of chat, email, web cams, etc. The more people that you meet and speak with, the closer you get to making that connection that could be the "connection of a lifetime".

What degree are you away from finding the love of your life? What's stopping you from making that connection right now? If I told you that you could increase your chances for success by 2200% by becoming a subscriber, would you? Well, I am telling you just that...you can. Do it, make those connections...I'd love to be talking about YOUR success story next.

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  1.   Delphine says:
    Posted: 07 Jun 09

    This is like my 10th attempt to try internet dating. I give up but then when optimism hits, I try again. I hope ultimately to be victorious over defeat. :D

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  2.   Pia65 says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 08

    Six degrees? Only found two...one has possibilities and the other...well...Uhhhhh??? I don't think I can honestly count so I guess its just one..... So, now I am wondering where are the other five........???

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  3.   CrystieD says:
    Posted: 15 Feb 08

    must agree with Anze1011...to an extent, I do believe in the 6 degrees, however don't agree with that being on this or any other site has ANYTHING to do with that... not saying it can't help you meet "someone" but "THE one ? I have given it a chance so ....

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  4.   2ute4u says:
    Posted: 14 Jan 08

    An interesting parallel,made me think.

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  5.   anez1011 says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 07

    I think the idea that subscribing increases your chances of meeting your special someone is a load of crock! You can meet that special someone anywhere. Where the site is helpful is that it is a interracial dating site. That is about it. Now, if anyone of you want to sit down there and whine about not meeting anyone then i suggest you check yourself properly as you can not blame the site for your inability to meet someone.Check yourself and be honest

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  6.   maishagal says:
    Posted: 09 Feb 07

    nice article...I have seen lots of dynamics to this site which can even be dependent on the time of the clock ua logged in and which part of the world happens to be awake @ that time. I haved learned lots, while meeting many interesting folks.

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  7.   Cocokisses says:
    Posted: 12 Jan 07

    How come eveyone is looking on this site but not many are finding true love? Is it because all of our standards are too high?

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  8.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 10 Jan 07

    Hope I find her one day. God help me!!!

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  9.   AANTONIO says:
    Posted: 24 Nov 06

    i think it can take 1, 6 or 50 or 100 to finally meet that right one. i just hope mine is soon

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  10.   EMBRACEME says:
    Posted: 20 Nov 06

    THIS ARTICLE HAS ME CONFUSED I AGREE WITH MAJ ON THIS ONE.. I HAVE BEEN HERE SEEN ALOT OF MEN AND WOMEN FIND THE ONE THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO BE WITH.. BUT HOW DO YOU REALLY KNOW IF YOU MEET THE ONE YOU ARE MEANT TO BE WITH OR DO YOU JUST CHAT AND MORE ON TO THE NEXT.. HMMM SEEMS LOVE IS ALL AROUND US MAJ.. ITS JUST THE POINT OF WHAT STEPS WOULD YOU TAKE TO WALK UP SPEND 10 MINUTES CHATTING WITH THAT PERSON TO FIND OUT IF YOU EVEN FEEL YOUR HEART POUND .. AND OH YEAH THE HEART POUNDING ISNT COMING FROM BELOW THE BELT LOL.. I THINK ALL GREAT LOVE TAKES TIME.. HELL IT COULD TAKE MONTHS EVEN YEARS TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE.. AND AS WE ALL THINK AND SAY .. I HAVE BEEN HERE TO LONG.. BUT HOW LONG IS TO LONG WHEN YOU ARE WAITING FOR MR RIGHT.. I WILL WAIT FOREVER IF I HAVE TO.. WONT YOU..

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  11.   ebonybeautyj says:
    Posted: 16 Nov 06

    True love can be found anything is possible...

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  12.   Majesticone says:
    Posted: 10 Nov 06

    this is an article i disagree with. i have been on this site for 2 yrs now. and have yet to meet someone that is not thinking from below the belt. the one person i thought was my soulmate, turned out to be a hap hazard to my emotional state of mind. so at what point is there 6 degrees for me? it feels more like 6000. i have thought about the idea.. my soulmate could be anywhere and what am i willing to do to get to him.. oh and why has he not found me yet??? i have seen pp come on here and with a month, found someone, engaged and a sucess story is born. im doing just like they are. so im not understanding. i think its a matter of FATE. i come here every day to chat, some times 3 times a day. not one message. so either im black balled and dont know it or the person im missing is not on the site and im wasting space.

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  13.   Carla says:
    Posted: 10 Oct 06

    I think the 6 degrees is silly... why we would need the internet!!!

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  14.   Fala says:
    Posted: 30 Sep 06

    It's an interesting concept. It kind of reinforces the idea that people really have more in common and are more closely related than they think. It can help break down the divisions between us.

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  15.   Coco says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 06

    I like the 6 degrees idea...makes you pay more attention to those around you each day. You never know who you're going to meet! Ummm...do any of you know Terrence Howard? LOL!

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  16.   xina03 says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 06

    I do think it's too much.....

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  17.   sweetest1 says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 06

    I think the 6 degrees is a farce... otherwise we would never need the internet!!!

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  18.   Natural72 says:
    Posted: 22 Sep 06

    Wow, just 6 people away...hummm if I could only find a map. AR HELP!

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  19.   Dora says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 06

    I can hardly believe how much my chances can be improved just by becoming a subcriber. I will be making a payment very soon. I think that love is a worthwhile investment.

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  20.   marquez097 says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 06

    true ture iceburger. also forget what u heard about people...sometimes its real but sometimes u need to judge for urself. and dont trip over silly stuff like talking to someone online...we r here to make friends as well as look for love...its not that serious

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  21.   iceburger says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 06

    Problem is that many people promise heavens before they meet. Once they meet, they cannot even provide whats on the roof. People should be real.

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  22.   Coco says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 06

    too bad most women on this site want true love and the guys want to live out some freakish fantasy...

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  23.   superdiva says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 06

    i would like to find the love of my life on this site.i hope to be one of the success stories,where are they and not the ones who play games like children.

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  24.   mossimo36 says:
    Posted: 11 Sep 06

    A success story for all of us one day..thats my hope

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  25.   Coco says:
    Posted: 30 Aug 06

    So if the 6 degrees of separation rule is true, then I should have met my man years ago! Does this mean I am only separated from actor Terrence Howard by 6 people? DANG IT, WHERE THE HECK ARE THEY AT????

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  26.   rashad says:
    Posted: 15 May 06

    Love to all

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  27.   Destiny34 says:
    Posted: 14 May 06

    I am hoping to find true love on this website. I am presently separated from him at the moment, I have no kids yet and I am 34, boy oh boy. Cheers, Destiny34 P.S. Oh by the way I found this site by surfing the web.

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  28.   Kleopatra2 says:
    Posted: 04 May 06

    A friend introduced me to this site and I hope I will find my perfect match.

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  29.   Mmac says:
    Posted: 01 May 06

    Without love, all is vanity and the world is filled by human animals, how about you all love one another with truth and honesty?

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  30.   Ron says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 06

    Wow, I am so amazed, a friend referred me to this site and I was able to re-connect with a long lost friend from my high school...so thats only 2 degrees!

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  31.   tarjay says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 06

    I wish you had a way to pass on postive information about meeting between members. I have meet 3 members so far. 1 is a keeper and other although they are very nice just not for me. They would be great for someone else however would like to pass that on.

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