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Dating white women in the modern world

Posted by James, 07 Jun

Today, dating white women has become easier than it was before. We now have the internet and technology which has made men of other men be able to connect with white women from anywhere. You can randomly find love online. Three or four decades ago, people had to go out to meet people. And they had to use their friends and their social circles to vet their potential dates. Imagine bumping into a stranger and having to round up your friends to come to meet them just so they can give you a thumbs up on whether to go ahead dating them. To be honest, those were tough dating times. Times have changed. And so has dating white women.

Can you imagine living in a black community and your dating preference is white women? Where did these men even begin? The ones who managed to meet white women must have been pretty lucky, don't you think? Lucky for us, we have it easier. So how is dating like for white women and men of other races these days? Read on and see how the dating dynamics have changed...

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How white women black men dating is today

For those of us who have lived in the world of online dating, it is hard to even imagine how things were those days. Imagine a black man seeing a white woman walking on the streets, there is an instant attraction and he decides to run down the streets to ask her out. And those were days when prejudice was pretty high. I can only imagine the woman screaming in terror. How do you even begin following a stranger down the streets to ask them out without appearing creepy or being called a stalker or a thief? Black man interracial dating must have been really tough those days.

We need to count ourselves lucky today. People are more open to dating outside racial lines. There is less prejudice. And thanks to technology, we live in a world of online dating and there is a rise in interracial dating sites for black men interested in dating white women. How great is that? No more looking like a freak when searching for love. Things are easier today. Then again, some might argue that they are harder. Well, let us explore this further...

How online dating has changed white women black men dating

Gone are the days when white women had to wait for a black man to leave them their number at the bar or coffee shop. These things rarely happen these days. With online dating, things are pretty different. Just like men, women are actually taking the initiative and have decided to be in charge of their dating as opposed to the days when asking a man out was considered taboo. So this has also made it easier for black men too... Here is how...

Accessibility to thousands of white women

Whether you are a black man living in an all-black neighborhood or not, that doesn't matter anymore. There are thousands of white women on interracial dating sites who are searching for love. Do white women like black men? Well, you need to be on an interracial dating website to believe that they do. And you know what's great? Accessibility. All you need to do is just register on such a website and you will have access to white women. No more sitting at the bars hoping to meet one. No more running down the streets after one only to be rejected in front of everyone or be mistaken for something you are not.

Now one thing that has given black men an edge when dating white women is the fact that online dating puts black men in contact with more white women than ever. Online dating has put black men within arm's reach of thousands of white women. So if your preference is that blonde or brunette, head on online. Your chances of dating one are higher. Plus white women who are interested in dating a black man are well aware of this fact. Plus, with online dating, one can cast a wide net, thereby increasing the chances of meeting someone to date. It is the world of instant access to lots of potential mates.

Dude! It is 2019. If you are still trying to meet a woman at that loud club where she has to scream on top of her voice to introduce yourself, you are losing out. Plus, there is no guarantee that you will ever see her again after all the effort of buying drink after drink just to get her number.

No need to worry about prejudice

You need not worry yourself with questions like: Do white women like black men or Why white women like black men. On an interracial dating site, white women are there because they want to date interracially. So you won't be rejected for sending her a message. If a person doesn't respond, they probably have other reasons like, maybe you just don't click personality-wise.

The beauty about looking for someone to date on an interracial dating website is that while you are filling out the profile, there is the option where you can state the dating preference of your preferred mate. So white women who want to exclusively date black women can check the box of the race of the preferred mate as "black men". As a black man, you should also say that you are interested in dating white women. This way, you will be paired to your preferred potential mate without fear of being rejected based on skin color.

Take the example of Interracial Dating Central. When you visit the site, you will find a link that will take you to white girls dating black guys. All you need to do is follow the link and you will have access to a huge database of white women dating black men. It is that easy.

Women are taking charge of their dating lives

The days of waiting for a man to ask you out are long gone. In this age of online dating, no one wants to pay for a membership subscription just to sit there. Women are no longer waiting for men to make an effort. Plus, with people having access to member databases, the competition is high. So white women and women of other races are stepping up their dating game in order to stand out.

This has made dating white women become easier. Now, even the dude who is a bit reserved or scared of being rejected by women finds his inbox full the next time he logs in. Every one is casting a wider net. Every woman is working on their dating profiles in order to make them stand out. That is our dating world today and it applies to white women who are looking to date black men. So for the black man, this makes meeting that white woman much easier.

People have options

Black men now have options. It is not like before where it was taboo dating someone from another race. It is not like before when people from the black community would frown at a man who had a white woman by his side. People rarely use the term trophy wife. The thing is, interracial dating is more acceptable within our societies. So, white women and black men have options and the freedom to date whoever they want.

Plus, online dating also gives people a wide range of options to choose from. So even white women who have never dated black men often find themselves in black-white relationships. All it takes is just great online chemistry and personal connection and before you know it, we have another interracial relationship to add to the existing ones.

All that being said, no matter how busy the white woman or black man is, meeting online is the simplest way to get a date. And online dating also gives people options in terms of age. Now, white women are known to be less conservative. So age to them isn't an issue. Regardless of age, white women will always be into you so long as there is a genuine connection. The thing is, all these women are looking for a man to date and love. So in this new modern age of dating, as a black man, all you need is the confidence to hit that inbox.

Now the great thing with online dating is that you can talk to as many people as you like. So when looking for a white woman to date, talk to multiple ones because the options are available for you until you find the one who makes you happy.

Still wondering why white women like black men?

The thing is, looking at online dating statistics, it is been easier for black men to date white women. We can't really pinpoint why. There are so many reasons that have been cited. Most are generalizations and very stereotypical. For instance, white women love black men because they are athletic. Here is another one - They like them because they are well endowed. Some feel there are more white women dating black men because white women are more aggressive and less conservative and they always go for what they want. But there these two reasons that I always think to be true. Physical attraction and love. If dark skin tickles your fancy, it makes sense for a white woman to look for a dark-skinned man on an online dating site even if she will be dating a black man for the first time.

The numbers don't lie...

For years black men white women relationships have been on the rise. So if you are there questioning the love that white women have for black men or vice versa, look at the numbers and results from various surveys and studies. As per most online dating surveys, this is the most common combination. Then there are the success stories that we have. Whatever the reasons for these interracial connections, the thing is, they are happening. Celebs are doing it! Everyone is doing it! The simplest and fastest way for black men to find white women to date, no matter how busy they are is online. So all you need to do to start dating a white woman the modern way is to get online. Use all the communication features provided. Be proactive. Within no time, you will find the one you connect with.

Well, if you want to know how love and attraction can drive people to make crazy decisions, read this article about a white man wanted to leave his wife to date black women. Don't forget to give your opinion!

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Posted: 18 Aug 19

I actually agree with the aforementioned article. It shows that interracial online dating between a black male and white female to be a nice arrangement with wonderful possibilities for all. HOWEVER, there is also a darker side to this situation. One that many black males know due to its cynicism and unexpected and unbelievable negativity and white females know due to their overpowering feelings of entitlement, power and arrogance. Although this may sound unique, it really isn't. Its an attitude that goes back to slavery. When the white masters denigrated and abused their black slaves, yet still found time to have sexual relations with the females. The most recent example of this, which is actually famous (or infamous) involves the NBA and the Los Angeles based team, The Clippers. The white owner of the team had a black girlfriend that infuriated him whenever she had any social interactions with his predominatebly black team and players. Things became heated when a series of recorded conversations became public in which the white owner chastised the black girlfriend, while also displaying venom for the black players he was paying large salaries to. Yet publicly, he acted as if the players were all his best buddies. So this TWO FACED ATTITUDE is not new, nor unique. But is unsavory. I believe ALL races/groups of people should be treated honestly and humanely. Having said that, I'm STUNNED by some of the comments I've heard from women ON THIS SITE. I have to really wonder if they REALLY are interested, concerned or EVEN CARE about "men of color". Do you want to share your life or time with a TRUE human being or just looking for "a black boy toy"?? The Black Experience in America is one of continuing struggle, minor accomplishments and pain. It goes further than Rap/blues/soul music. Further than Martin Luther King Day. Further than Obama, Steve Harvey, Lebron James and police issues. One would think that with all of the negativity going on in the headlines on a daily basis, that this would be the ONE PLACE where sanity, understanding and love rules. I had one woman tell me that she thought that "slavery was a social problem". Another one told me that "the white man's struggles in America are WAY WORSE than ANYTHING experienced by the black man". Another one said that "there's NO such thing as racism". Another one told me that "she doesn't want ANY of the black men she is dating to meet any of her white friends, cause they wouldn't understand". Another told me that although she grew up in Florida, "she doesn't consider that part of the South". Another one said that "black unemployment is only because they don't wanna work". Yet another one told me that "she didn't think there was any problems in Black America cause she hadn't heard anything". And yet another one just stated that she ONLY dates "men of color" if they are MIXED WITH WHITE. And yet another had stated that she's looking for a "brown skinned radio producer". Here's one: "Black men usually generalize about how white women are. They don't like women having opinions. They like submissive women" And another: "I never spoke to a black man till I was 40. Pleasing my parents was more important than pleasing myself". And yet another: I knew I liked black men in college, but white girls didn't date black boys in the 80s". And there's yet another profile with a lovely blond girl happily posing...IN FRONT OF A CONFEDERATE FLAG!! Here's one that TRULY STUNNED ME: "Black people are untrustworthy. Can you be trusted??" And here's a word of advice someone sent me here: "I can stay stuck in being a victim. So can all black people." Here's something told to me YESTERDAY by another member on the site: A woman on the site that he had been conferring with related that she only chose black men based on their penis size. He was STUNNED when she asked him about his won size. When he had no reply, she told him to MEASURE IT AND GET BACK TO HER!! Wow!! Now I DO have a lively imagination, but even I CANNOT MAKE THIS STUFF UP. There's actually MORE, but if you recognize YOURSELF in any of those comments then its time to CEASE AND DESIST and WAKE UP AND GET REAL. It NEVER ceases to amaze me how RELAXINGLY, women will exercise their "White Privilege" and NONCHALANTLY say DISGUSTING things to " men of color". Just like DURING SLAVERY when we weren't viewed as human beings, but only as property or "things". Don't think because you've seen a few movies, watched a few videos or voted for Obama that you KNOW ALL ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE- CAUSE YOU DON'T. That's like me going to a few restaurants, and watching some Bruce Lee movies and then SWEAR I know ALL about the Chinese!! Or watching The Godfather and The Sopranos and then SWEAR I know all about Italians!! Lol But the TRULY surprising thing is that the aforementioned comments came from white women. Now one would think with all the fights for injustice and acceptance that they have gone through, that they themselves would be MORE accepting and understanding of others INSTEAD of being MORE critical and prejudicial of the Black Experience in general. And PLEASE, STOP telling me YOU KNOW RACISM, cause when you were out with your black guy, some "sister" kept making remarks or gave you dirty looks, which made you feel UNCOMFORTABLE. That's called JEALOUSY, baby!! Go visit a Black History museum and THEN YOU'LL SEE FIRSTHAND what TRUE racism looks like. I find it funny, if not DEMEANING that whites are "Oh so interested" in other cultures (Asian/ Hispanic/ European/ Middle Eastern) but figure that they know "all they need to know" about African American culture and history. Yet its BLATANTLY obvious (judging by the comments/observances above - alone) THAT AIN'T TRUE. As the original article related, dating one of a different ethnicity can be full and rewarding. But if you are TRULY SERIOUS about knowing of someone else's culture, ya gotta do a little homework and ya gotta ask a few questions. And sometimes the discussions can be painful. But the end result will be honest and rewarding. Now before one DISMISSES the aforementioned boneheaded comments and thoughts made by "Those women" and considers themselves COMPLETELY different, think of this: EVERY white person (yes that includes this site too) knows a white person who is TRULY racist. It could be a family member/ close friend/ co-worker/ etcetera. Ain't it funny how black folks just keep MYSTERIOUSLY running into racists, yet white folks NEVER seem to know ANY. Hmmmm….. Let me tell you a secret: just about EVERY black male has had a racist encounter. Be it a comment/ slur/ or an act. The pain or embarrassment of those situations causes most blacks to keep it to themselves or only share it with other blacks, which is why YOU never know..... And ladies let's DROP THE STEREOTYPES I see in SO MANY profiles. EVERY black man IS NOT TALL, HANDSOME AND ATHLETIC. Just like MOST women on this site WOULD NOT pass for Heidi Klum, Cindy Crawford or Amy Adams. So instead of some UNREALISTIC DREAM dude (whom you will NEVER meet), why not aim for a decent, hardworking, respectful, thoughtful guy who treats you well and enjoys doing fun things. I'm in NO WAY a Trump supporter but I am REALLY tired of him being USED AS A SCAPEGOAT FOR RACISM. Racism in its various guises and incarnations existed WAY, WAY before Trump was in office and WILL EXIST long after he is a memory. When people USE Trump as a lightning rod, they are either DELUSIONAL OR LYING to themselves as to the reality of times past and present. Realistically and honestly speaking, racism itself IS NOT the complete reason for the negative state of Black America. Blacks themselves also have many internal issues to address and conquer, such as lovingly using the "so called N-word". But let's DROP the stereotypes and negatives!! There are MANY Black men who aren't athletes or entertainers. Just "everyday Joes" who go to college, aren't criminals, good fathers, dislike drugs, live in nice places, drive decent cars and want the better things in life - JUST LIKE YOU. I'm not unique nor special. The comments/observations made to me WERE MADE TO OTHER BLACK MALES TOO. I'm just a "Whistleblower" who puts it out there for all to see. To those who are STILL upset for me having the AUDACITY TO EXPOSE SOME HIDDEN TRUTHS, the answers simple: STOP playing the VILLAIN and admit to your flaws and negativity. Your new beginning is here and this time its about ENLIGHTENMENT and RESPECT. We as differing groups of peoples are actually closer together than we are further apart.

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